Is complaining normal

Yeah i complain, a lot. And its not like its my fault. Everything that bothers me, i complain about. The food that takes long, the cold water, the fat lady in the isle, the girl with one eye, the stupid ATM that takes forever, the dog piss and sh*t. You name it. Now apparently thats an issue with my family. But i dont see anything wrong with expressing your feelings.

You step in piss and see if you can keep it in, or draw money and wait for it to generate the sh*t. Or a huge fat blimp in the isle looking at cat food and cant decide what flavour her cat likes. Try the pet shop, ask for mice or birds or whateva.

So tell me. Is it normal for me to complain? Or are every one in this house on their periode?

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41% Normal
Based on 34 votes (14 yes)
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  • Jen118584

    They aren't the problem. You are. Keep on bitching and moaning like a spoiled little brat and see how many people you can alienate. To be brutally honest, I can't stand people like you. You think nothing is your fault and that all your negativity is justified. You think you have the right to speak your mind, but what about others' right to not be forced to listen to your constant complaining? Not everything is about YOU. The truth is, no one cares about what makes you miserable, and no one wants to hear your bitching. Maybe if you got a little more enjoyment out of life and stop focusing on all the tiny little setbacks, you could stay more positive.

    I take it you're a man since you are so ignorant as to assume whenever a woman is unhappy with you, she's on her period. They're not on their period, moron. You're just a downer and that pisses people off.

    Be a real man and suck it up.

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    • Hey Jen - it could be a girl. Probably not though...

      And if not, I'm going to take a guy angle on this. Grow the fuck up!!!

      Yes you complain. A lot So do you really believe all these people are just there to piss you off? Well get over yourself.

      And hey, if you aren't a guy - well same advice. Grow up.

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      • Jen118584

        It very well could be, but I got a manly vibe from the post so I went with it! :)

        Poster, I came off as harsh, but your post made me exhausted just reading it. Really you just need to get over it and take life for what it is. Not everything can be easy and go your way all the time. Think of the time and energy you waste getting pissed off and bitching about tiny things that don't matter.

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        • itskismet

          DO Not apologize for your earlier post and thought. You were RIGHT ON! You said everything I wanted to say when I read it.
          Can not stand or be bothered with negative/drama people who think of only themselves. Life is too short to wrap a pee-brain around small, moronic things that at the end of your life is worthless. My only addition to the hater/complainer.....Grow up, think of others rather yourself and if not, put a tight seatbelt on because your life is destined for a negative, bumpy, and unhappy life.

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  • Well thank you for your kind words. Person up top, that i make sick. Its people like you that gets stabed, raped, walked over ect. I think complaining is a way of life. Some asshole complained about his head hitting the steering wheel, they invented seatbelts. Some jerk complained about stairs and now theres what? Exactly!

    To my dear reader jen. Ha! A typical female, your mad at your boyfriend so you decide to come to me to blow some steam. Look, i only wana know if its normal. Not hear a story about why i complain. Lets say, you get into your car. You drive 10mph behind a jerk and your late for work. What are you gona do? Complain ofcourse. And if you dont, then your a walk over. And i probably walked over you in the past

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    • Alison89

      Wow, what a self-congratulating prick you are. You really have anger management issues. You should look up "assertiveness training" and apply some of it to your life.

      If there's a fat lady on the same isle, in a friendly tone, say, "Excuse me." I've never seen someone not move out of the way when they realize they're in the way. Or better yet, go to a grocery store on the mainland and shop on an aisle.

      You make it sound like complainers are the ones who get things fixed. You're also the ones who get your food spat in, your paycheck gets lost, and people get in your way on purpose. Why? Because you're an asshole and everyone knows it.

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    • Mastersash

      So are you pissed at your boyfriend too? Or is it just because you were born without balls? Must suck to be so inadequate.. but you shouldn't take your own limitations out on other people. Stop complaining before everyone here wishes you were dead.. and then it comes true. It's called karma; and it's the reason why your such horrible person with an ugly soul that will never find happiness past degrading good people.. good luck in life!

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      • barter1

        I so agree with you. You are right on.

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  • zackman5000

    Try not to be so judgemental its normal but in moderation. Sorry to be blunt but no one whats to hear other people complain. I understand dog sh*tting on the floor and stuff but when someone has one eye. Why would you complain about that? Same with the whole fat person buying cat food...thats just being picky about what you see and you really cant because there is far worse stuff then looking at a giant in line at walmart or something like that. I dont mean to be insulting but your going to have to grow up when its comes to complaining so much. Only trying to help dont mean to be rude.=)

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  • Those things you mentioned would bother most people...

    But most people would just let it go and move on without needing an audience to validate their feelings of irritation to.

    You may think that voicing your aggravation out-loud (complaining) is helping you deal with the situation, but ultimately it is not. What is really happening is; you are making yourself, and the people around you feel worse. By drawing attention to these offenses you are wasting your time and energy on something you can never change, so it's in your best interest to just move past it.

    Plus, it's not very likely that the offenders are giving these things as much thought as you are, so by dwelling, you are letting them win.

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