Is chivalry dead?

Yeah fuck chivalry bitches these days don't appreciate shit

Sometimes woman may not want help or doesnt feel comfortable with you helping her with her car at night or whatever. holding the door is fine. but woman can sometimes mistake it for a man flirting or something and feel uncomfortable. Maybe its mens high standards of just because u take her to dinner doesnt mean you have premission to hook up with her. which ik alot of guys who do that and get mad when they dont get what they are looking for. maybe guys just need to learn to expect less. us woman have done it since day 1. you shouldnt do nice things to get things in return you do them because youre a good person. yes a woman should say thank you but men should say thank you for cleaning and cooking that most woman do. however men do those things too dont get me wrong it goes both ways. just learn to take things less offensivly

Id say it's both and that it's a good thing. Chivalry is dead, generally. Some things that are chivalrous still happens but not exclusively towards women, such as holding a door open. People still do that but for men and women. Which is good.

Early 20's and how I see it, every guy I know who is "chivalrous" gets roughly 0 pussy. So what's the appeal? Dogs get fed

The book of chivalry is mostly jousting, not acting nice. So if I don't hold the door open and a girl tells me "chivalry is dead" I will ask her if she would like to joust promptly at 1300 hours.

I wonder how Europe will sustain itself with plummeting birth rates? Feminism and the liberal left has doomed the European man... This is coming from an African.

Chivalry exists. Plenty of truly chivalrous men and plenty of women who crave it.

I was raised to be courteous and helpful towards females. It doesn't matter to me if a woman is unappreciative of my kind acts, because I'm never doing it in an effort to impress/woe/fuck her. Which is why I don't whine about it if I do come across women who are unappreciative of it. Even if I don't get a thank you from a stranger I don't throw a fit or get discouraged. All this is probably why I am still chivalrous after all this time because it's innate.

Not in my personal experience. Literally every single person I've dated has behaved this way, but perhaps that speaks more to the type of people that I've dated...

I can see how the gesture would go unappreciated by most women, though.

Chivalry isn't dead, but it is unappreciated to the point that most men go "why bother!"

Not only is it unappreciated, but I have found that some women are actually offended by it! Only a couple of weeks ago I held open a door for a woman with an armful of shopping, and as she exited she snapped at me "I could have got it myself you know!" I was so stunned I couldn't even come up with a witty comeback, I just stood there staring at her with a "stunned mullet" look.

That being said, I'll always open the door for a woman, stop to check that the broken down car doesn't need help, etc. I guess it's the way I was raised, you know, being "older" and all.

Yes. Chivalry is completely dead. We live in a graceless age. Either you're a good teammate with the opposite gender, or you're locked into a cubicle picking your nose. No mercy. The champions win the spoils.

Not entirely extinct but certainly endangered. Women who are self aware and secure enough to revel in their femininity are more likely to witness / provoke a chivalrous response from men confident in demonstrating their masculinity.

Chivalry, Bushido, honor and loyalty are all romantic ideals. They're really all forms of self-sacrificial love, which is the masculine sort of love.

Because the new wave of feminism discourages both masculinity and femininity, chivalry is dying. In it's place is some miserable in-between, with high divorce rates and depression of all sorts.

So when folks say that men used to be more stoic and women more charming, what they really mean is that men were more masculine and women, feminine.

Actually I do that all the time, I don't want to be rude, you are obviously questioning weather there are men who go they extra mile. They answer is yes, city culture has ruined men, and way too much empowerment has ruined women. I can never get my point across with my aunt because she's full of pride.

There's a reason I was given boney knuckles, thick shoulders, they ability to lift things. There's a reason I'm always full of energy. Men who were built to be manly need to do what they can, I'm actually 22, I don't even want a girlfriend. I'm that bad guy you here about who just likes every girl. I didn't used to be. When I walk down the street at almost 6 ft 3 girls speed up there walk, because I'm a guy.

When I look at girls sometimes they look they other way, because I'm a guy. With all do respect fuck them, I don't want to sleep with them all, so I stopped being nice, alcohol taught me the skill of honestly. Men don't have to be manly, and women don't have to be womenly, but this shit has gone too far.

Ps. They original definition of chivalry is good fencing skills. Some comedian made a joke about it, it made me laugh.

i once tried to help this dumb bitch what drove into a snowbank & got stuck

she wouldnt even git off her phone as i pushed her shitbox out and then drove away without so muchasa thank you

Consider this. If it wasn't for sex, there would be a bounty on women. $75.00 a pelt.