Is chemistry the same as compatibility?

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I think my bf and I have chemistry but not that much compatibility. When we first met, it felt like we knew each other already and from there we knew it was destined. But as we dated, I see that we have some small differences like different taste in some things but so far we have only focused on what we both want to do which is good I suppose.

I believe though that chemistry is more important than compatibility when it comes to making your relationship last, from experience. I think chemistry is when you feel at home and comfortable with your partner no matter who they are or what they like.

What do you think is more important? or are they the same thing? Sound off.

Chemistry 10
Compatibility 5
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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    Chemistry is attraction to me, but compatibility is a comfortable, continuing relationship.
    I don't see how a relationship could begin without some chemistry, and I don't see how it can last without compatibility.
    This leaves me thinking that both are necessary for a good relationship, but not necessarily at the same time.

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    • Short4Words
      8 years ago

      You said it best.

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      • dirtybirdy
        8 years ago

        Agreed.

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  • Cuntsiclestick
    8 years ago

    For some reason, my sister and her boyfriend come to mind. They're complete opposites in almost everything and yet they're lovey dovey, head over heels for each other. They're getting married soon and I'm quite happy for them. Anyway, if the two people have chemistry, doesn't that make them compatible no matter what they both like?

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  • Crusades|
    8 years ago

    Chemistry and compatibility are two different things. For example, two people can have amazing chemistry and attraction, yet they are completely incompatible in bed, if, let's say, the guy's penis is too small, or too big (in my case lol). Then the compatibility issue appears and ruins the existing chemistry. There are a lot of inconveniences that can initially be overcome, if the people involved have chemistry, but with time, the lack of compatibility can become frustrating. Because, when it comes to chemistry between 2 people, we analyze the situation overall, while when we talk about compatibility, we must go into specifics, and we all know how superficial people are, how they like to break things off because of minor things.

    Doesn't matter how strong the attraction is and how intense the relationship is at the beginning, it will eventually fade away rather quickly if there's no compatibility.

    "The light that burns twice as bright, goes out twice as fast".

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  • Andurlittledog2
    8 years ago

    Chemistry happens quick, it can fade just as quickly. Comparability usually results in long lasting relationships.

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  • Thexoutcast
    8 years ago

    My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year. We have chemistry but lack compatibility. We have incompatible tastes in music, general interests, taste in movies, sleeping and waking schedules, etc. But we are extremely attracted to each other, feel comfortable with each other, and accept each other for our differences.

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