Is being embarrassed to ride ur bf normal?

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For almost a year now my boyfriend had been trying to get me to ride him.. I would love to but I get nervous and i just get on bottom or we do it doggie style. How do u begin to ride? Funny thing is when I'm masturbating with my dildo I ride good well it feel really good but when I'm on top of my bf I get nervous. Perhaps I should just not be scared and ride him like I want to eventually I will get the hang of it right?

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  • JustDave
    13 years ago

    Your boyfriend should help you feel relaxed enough to wanna try it. He should be happy that its him you're on top of & not someone else. There is no "wrong" way to do it. Its all personal preference.

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    • Memehoney
      12 years ago

      Thanks for the comment. I think the issue is just a scary thing. Altough its something I need to accomplish to be a better lover for the both of us. And he really should be happy even if I dont "drive stick well"....lol

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      • Ryan556
        11 years ago

        It shouldent matter unless your just friends with benefits lol I alwayse go in the nude at my house so I'm nude right now

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    I guess it is normal cuz my gf thinks the same way?so y is this ladies?any reasons?

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    • Memehoney
      12 years ago

      Sry I'm replying from mi iPhone and there isn't a reply key on is it normal? For iPhones... But if u return and read this here's my thoughts on your question...... In many was women are self conscious when it comes to sex.. We want to be the best, have the best (stuff) our partners have ever had, or be magnificent in bed... Most most seem to base their confidence on aspects of a sexual nature how many guys are attracted to you, how many times you get hit on, and how sexually satisfying they are. In my case they sexually satisfying part is accurate. I enjoy sex and my partner always let's me know (in more ways than one) that he's extremely satisfied. But all women want to be there porn star that their man wants and many feel like they are lacking if they are somewhat inexperienced and get discouraged.. In bed a woman wants to be a love goddess and doesn't want to come off as a basic lover. Being on top is something women find to be kind of scary. No woman wants to screw up on top... Hope this helps.. Any feedback will help. What are your thoughts of women on top? And their feelings of insecurity up there?

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      • Ryan556
        11 years ago

        Girls/women should learn or atleast I don't care cause I'm geating laid and Thell learn and get better that Is what I tell my gf cause she was a virgin and she is a love goddess now

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Just do it, it's not so hard (no pun intended) and he loves you, he won't mind, he'll probs love it!

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  • luckynj
    12 years ago

    It will be more pleasureable position for you. Mostly females like it more. If you move down towards him then he will be able to suck your boobs too. It will be fantastic experience for both of you.

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    • Memehoney
      12 years ago

      Yes it is more pleasurable for ladies. While I was "practicing" I felt that penetration was deeper and it even made him feel bigger thing is sometimes it can get uncomfortable and hurt a tad bit, otherwise I enjoy it I just need to master it.. lol

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  • Memehoney
    13 years ago

    @ jcity152 ..... Sry I'm replying from mi iPhone and there isn't a reply key on is it normal? For iPhones... But if u return and read this here's my thoughts on your question...... In many was women are self conscious when it comes to sex.. We want to be the best, have the best (stuff) our partners have ever had, or be magnificent in bed... Most most seem to base their confidence on aspects of a sexual nature how many guys are attracted to you, how many times you get hit on, and how sexually satisfying they are. In my case they sexually satisfying part is accurate. I enjoy sex and my partner always let's me know (in more ways than one) that he's extremely satisfied. But all women want to be there porn star that their man wants and many feel like they are lacking if they are somewhat inexperienced and get discouraged.. In bed a woman wants to be a love goddess and doesn't want to come off as a basic lover. Being on top is something women find to be kind of scary. No woman wants to screw up on top... Hope this helps.. Any feedback will help. What are your thoughts of women on top? And their feelings of insecurity up there?

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  • jensapa
    13 years ago

    Do it with the lights of first. An just get on top of him an it will come natural, trust me!! It's not hard, u know what will feel good. An he'll luv it.

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  • chaosdragoon1
    13 years ago

    A pooch is cute! I wish a woman would ride me.

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  • Memehoney
    13 years ago

    @MissSorel I kinda wish my butt was just a tad bit bigger but idk if that's the issue. I'm afraid I'll look stupid or I won't do it right. Being on top scares me and I have no idea y... My bf loves my body when I get nude or something he is isn't turned on and always caresses my body saying nice things about my curves. Lol I'm a pretty thin girl sometimes sitting down I hate my stomach but standing up everything looks great probably y I'm on top during foreplay but back to the bottom for intercourse. Lol. I just need to figure out y it's scares me so much being on top. It's not the staring becuz I put a pillow over his had once and it still didn't wrk. I don't wanna suck at it. Any tips?

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Probably worried about our figures, cause we're on top, our stomach might jiggle or we'll feel embarassed.

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    • Memehoney
      12 years ago

      I kinda wish my butt was just a tad bit bigger but idk if that's the issue. I'm afraid I'll look stupid or I won't do it right. Being on top scares me and I have no idea y... My bf loves my body when I get nude or something he is isn't turned on and always caresses my body saying nice things about my curves. Lol I'm a pretty thin girl sometimes sitting down I hate my stomach but standing up everything looks great probably y I'm on top during foreplay but back to the bottom for intercourse. Lol. I just need to figure out y it's scares me so much being on top. It's not the staring becuz I put a pillow over his had once and it still didn't wrk. I don't wanna suck at it. Any tips?

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