Is being crazy and wild over a girl a sign that she is "the one"?

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For 2 1/2 years I was so crazy about this one girl, she is all I thought about, and when I was with her I just wanted to hug and grab and kiss her. I never thought I would get over her. BUT 2 weeks ago, I met another girl. They look alike. Again, I am crazy! The girl from the past seems like a bad habit now!I thought being crazy in love like this was rare, and only happened with "the one" you are supposed to be with. Is it normal to feel this crazy in love twice? I mean I am insane in love!!!

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    I think it's a good sign that they may be a good fit for you. :)

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  • Holzman_67
    10 years ago

    what you're dealing with here is not "the one" but rather, "the two"
    Meaning the second "one" you've met.

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    11 years ago

    @keddersPrincess and davesumba

    I have had infatuations, been "into" girls for close to a year and I have gone out with many girls. But these 2 girls were entirely different. it was night and day compared to the other girlfriends I have had. I am not that young.
    I have heard that this only happens maybe once in a persons lifetime, to feel attration on every level to this intense of a degree (physical, emotional, mental and spiritual). What I don't understand is that it has happened twice.

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    • davesumba
      11 years ago

      seriously, there's almost 7 billion people in this world, that would make 3.5 million different personality types that could be 100% compatible with each other if you only had one "the one". but there aren't that many different kinds of people, and there's so many people that you could easily get along with at every level. there are many "the ones", it's just a matter of when you find one of them.
      People talk about "the one" like it's so rare, and only happens once in your life. But no, that is just what people who don't have one say to rationalize not having one, and what people who do have one say because it took a while to find theirs, or once they did find their's, they stopped caring about anyone else and didn't realize/want to know that there were many others out there.

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  • KeddersPrincess
    11 years ago

    Well, I don't know if it's the same for guys as with girls, but if I had a dime for every "love of my life" I'd be a rich son of a bitch. This is no offense to you, but this will probably happen often in your lifetime. Most of the guys I fall for usually last one to two and a half years. I don't really believe in "the one" so I may not be one to judge, but I think that what you are going through is just one of the many loves that you will face in your life, and most likely, there will be a lot more.

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  • Tarkio
    11 years ago

    @davesumba

    Looking for a heterosexual relationship In a town of 100,000 people:

    -50,000 opposite sex
    -46000 not in age group, gay or married
    - 3300 personality/lifestyle mismatch
    - 685 no physical attraction
    - 14 in love with someone else, extensive emotional baggage for another
    _________
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  • davesumba
    11 years ago

    there are many "the one's". you also may be dealing with infatuation.

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