Is atm normal

No it is disgusting. I don't mean disgusting as in I personally find it gross, (though I do) I mean disgusting as in UNSANITARY. You shouldn't do it if you have any self-respect in you at all, which, sense you're having doubts, I'm guessing you do.

The attraction is your submissiveness and willingness to do whatever he wants, despite your own concerns.

Also porn has tricked most guys into thinking that ATM is common and that a girls ass is just as clean as her vagina. Truth is the girls in porn do heavy enemas before filming to avoid poop in the video. Most girls don't do enemas before anal sex in real life.

Bacteria is always a present concern in any case, so while the thought of a girl loving your cock so much that she will suck it after it's been fucking her ass is a turn on, its not really worth the health risks.

I would say if he wants to go from your ass to your mouth with his probably somewhat inadequate penis, tell him to do it first. You get a strap-on, fuck his ass then put it in his mouth. IF HE EVEN WOULD LET YOU GET CLOSE TO HIS MOUTH. If he won't get the same all over experience, if he thinks its sick then there's your answer. Besides that is just nasty. Tell him fuck no. Unless he fucks your ads with a condom, then pull it off then to your mouth.

that's not normal hun

he is only thinking about his own fetishes

he needs to think about your health

if you do something like this, you're supposed to wear a condom during anal, remove for oral

I only use ATM's that give out money.
Not ones that give out dicks that have been in someones ass.

My gf does both but ma’am please don’t do that. It’s not sanitary.
Your bf is watching too much porn. Unless you’re giving yourself an enema and really cleaning yourself out, you’re opening yourself up to Hepatitis.
You’re awesome for doing both but leave the ATM to pornhub

Is it normal to do, or normal for guys to think it? I think not to do, but yes to guys thinking about it. Stop with the psycho babble, it's taboo so it's kind of hot too think about, I don't think it's a dominant thing, or inadequate thing or whatever, a lot of us guys are turned on by taboo type things and kinky, we just don't always act on them. Do it if you want, don't if you don't, if he gets mad if you don't or makes fun of you, then he isn't the guy for you. He just as well as you, should feel comfortable enough to ask for what you would like to do with sex, and mature enough to accept the others answer. Good luck to you.

well there is a safe way to do this you need to wash out your but with antibacterial soap or Apple cider vinegar anal wash you will enjoy preforming this act more...KEEP IT KEEL..enjoy life it's short

He sounds like he watches too much pornography. He is disrespectful of women, and wants to act out the garbage he sees on the screen with you.

If I were you I wouldn't do any of that bullshit with him! Also, with regard to oral sex, does he do it to you as well? If he doesn't give you oral then it would be unwise for you to give it to him.

Follow your gut reaction on this one, girl, maybe you can't explain why you have bad feelings, but you are having those bad feelings about him secretly hating you, and wanting you to eat your own feces for a reason! This ass to mouth sex thing that he wants you to do is very unsanitary and degrading. Don't do it!

If you think he will make fun of you for participating in these sex acts with you then by all means don't do any of that garbage with him! I personally think you ought to dump him. I don't see a future for you with this stupid guy. If there's no future, then there's no reason to be with him period.

TRUST YOUR GUT!!!

i had an ex wife go ass to mouth on me. i would never ask a woman to do it though . its gross. Ok so in porn a guy is getting ass and about to pop in her ass and he pulls out and shoots on her face? he ruined his fun . the whole point of fucking a tight ass is to cum inside it.( i can last about 20 seconds) it feels so good i stay hard and shoot again because cum in ass is the perfect lube.

He wants to see you gag on your own shit. He doesn't hate you, it's just a power trip. Let him have his moment then ask him to do something you would like to see him do!

One thing is certain: he watches a lot of porn. After you've seen 100 girls doing it, half of them not minding, and half even loving it as if it was better than chocolate (no pun intended, because those dicks always exit those asses all shiny and clean, so it look like it's all fine), well, after seeing all that over and over again, even the nicest guys may have a hard time understanding why their girl hates it so much, when so many girls seem to be liking it.

Now, take my case: a guy sharing this fantasy (to some extent), and I like to think of myself as a "nice guy" (never cheated, after almost 20 years with the same girl, love going down on her, ass licking included, so I largely reciprocate, even if my fantasies do go towards a dominant approach).

If my wife would even consider going down on me after I was in her ass, and the dick comes out smelly (not even talking about visibly dirty), it would be a major turn-off and I would lose respect for her... because I would think she has serious self-esteem issues and/or is too stupid to realize the health risks.

On the other hand, the fact that my wife is aware and does nothing about my fantasy of this, does frustrate me. What would I like her to do about it? Well, at least once a year (be that my birthday or something), do a serious enema like those pornstars, squirt some tasty lube in her ass, invite me to fuck her in there, and every now and then turn around for a taste and fake it about how much she loves it. Yes, it is a lot to ask, hence why I don't expect it more than once or twice, but heck, I've done my sacrifices as well. As long as there are sanitary measures that can be taken to do it safely, why not do it at least once?

If you want to go into the psychology of it all, for those who easily jump to the conclusion the guy is "broken" inside or has self-esteem issues because of it, well, yeah, it might be a little bit true... but sometimes the girl might have her part in that. A rather bitchy girl, not very generous and not very sweet, brings a certain dryness in the relationship, a certain dominance. Some men have these fantasies as a (often subconscious) way of trying to bring the balance of power back in place.

In the beginning of our relationship, I thought my girlfriend (later on wife) was so sweet, that I just wanted to kiss and worship her all over, and didn't need her to do much back to me. As time went by though, I guess that went up to her head, blew up her ego, and sort of took it for granted... so slowly the sweet aura faded away... and with that, my fantasies of somewhat "disrespecting" her with bondage, ATM or golden showers crawled in... even if they remain within healthy boundaries (nothing that can cause injury or infection, so everything would have to be as safe and as clean as it gets).

So does he want it and you hate the idea? These are your options:
- Try to be as sweet, gentle, fragile and gentle as possible, making him feel a man in all other aspects... to slowly induce the feeling in him that you're too sweet for that
- Have a candid discussion with him about it, saying you want to make him happy, but you have your fears and concerns... checking that he does understand the difference between porn fiction and reality, health risks and the efforts you'd have to go through to mitigate that... And see if he's happy with the compromise of doing this only once a year.
- If he doesn't seem reasonable to go for that, only then take a harder approach and ask for reciprocation: him to lick your fingers out of his ass, or him to first suck a dildo out of your ass, before he puts his lollypop in there. Then read his reactions... if he's backing down, he may realize what he's asking. If he's down for it, WITHOUT the health precautions of proper cleaning, then he's damaged goods, because sooner or later one of you (likely both) will end up struggling with Hepatitis or other life-threatening diseases, so you better leave him.

Oh, and if he does go for the compromise of "once a year" in a clean "environment", you better live up to your promise too... but also make it clear to him that he has to be honest about being happy with it, otherwise you'll CUT HIS BALLS OFF if you catch him trying to get more of it elsewhere.

I don't see the harm in a girl trying to help a guy with his fantasy. But I do see the harm in a guy not being reasonable about it and mindful of her sacrifices.

Well, that's a fucking shit

Outside of porn...probably not normal. Unless you like eating poop, then maybe a little more normal.

Unsanitary, gross, and it's already a red flag if you're not comfortable doing it. Don't let him talk you into it or feel obligated to.

He watches that sort of thing on porn videos .You don't have to doit .put a dildo in your ass and see if he wants to put in his mouth.I do not think he will do it.

Why do i sense this is a troll post?