Is amir haunting me ?

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I've been having frequent dreams About My First Child Amir. HE Was born September 2, 2011 & Died the same day. I just keep seeing a re-run in my head from when I was giving delivery to him And everything is covered in blood.. then I hear a distant baby's cry ..I want to know what does this mean.. is he trying to tell me something? I don't know And I definitely don't understand this is something I thought I. Could of bare with it But I feel like I have Nothing to live for anymore, everything seems hopeless.. I can't sleep, I hardly eat I just Look .like I'm in a daze 24/7 I know something is wrong with me ..

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  • Vanguard
    11 years ago

    I am sorry for your loss. Losing a child wouldn't be easy and I couldn't even start to imagine what you are going through. It sounds like you are suffering from depression and I would reccommend seeing a doctor straight away.

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  • alextsang08
    9 years ago

    I am sorry for your loss, but try to be happy, after all, have peace knowing that you helped to stop the world from being destroyed from over population

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  • GoraIntoDesiGals
    10 years ago

    I guess it's normal to have bad dreams after such an event. He is not "telling" you anything since he never learned to speak and can't have more intelligence than the average newborn. Let alone when passed away...

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  • Avant-Garde
    10 years ago

    I don't think he's haunting you. Perhaps, you are feeling "haunted" from the sudden lost? You could consult a dream specialist and see if they can tell you what your dreams are trying to tell you.

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  • Alettago
    11 years ago

    It is in your own mind, it's really bothering you. I was really depressed a few years ago because my boyfriend had broken up with me, I also had really messed up nightmares about him and that he was a 100 meters from me and I was trying to get to him, but he only got further away, also about the moment that he was breaking up over and over again. My point is that my bf was also not trying to say anything to me. My nightmares were gone after two months, because then I got over him. For you it's a much bigger deal to get over your nightmares. I'm guessing that you still need to deal with your feelings maybe with some support from experts or people who have been through the same.

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  • that22
    11 years ago

    i believe you are just in mourning for your son my best freind she had 2 children then she got pregnant and like you her son passed the day he was born,for awhile she lost her kids and went down a bad path then she got it together she still mourns her son but keeps going she does therapy takes medicane she recently got pregnant years later she had her oldest at13 so she choose to keep her baby and she had another son but she was raped in front of him she is going to court etc. but yes its normal and id suggest you get help your feelings and dreams are valid and id be shocked if you didnt dream of him godbless you i know it must be hard but god has a reason for everything some medicane may help you sleep through the night but only time will help .

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  • PuppyPower
    11 years ago

    My ex is named Amir...o.o

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