Is a girl wife material if she was already into anal?

"Wife material" is a lot more than sex. Is she stable/psycho? Motherly? Trustworthy? Is she evil, would she kill you for the life insurance? Sex in all is actually a small percentage of the relationship long term.

i think yes thats still wife material because she's already into something you enjoy, she isn't saying no to it, or saying yes but taking time to get used to it

God I can not relate to guys that worry about that kind of shit. So what she has been fucked in the ass? Id rather have a girl that knew what she was doing than some church bitch that says no to everything

Wife material. Yes,she is.
Doesn't make you husband material.

Granted I am but an asexual but I cannot understand why some guys want to date a “freaky” woman who is simultaneously a pure virgin when he meets her? It’s one or the other, choose.

You sound like a hypocritical sex addict who believes in double standards when it comes to women.

I don’t care about anal and wife material. Her dick sucking skills is what makes her a keeper!

My husband had a coworker that used to often say, "(Q) What do you say to a woman who deep throats and takes it in the ass? (A) Marry me!" and laugh.

The guy is married. Both he and his wife openly tout that he proposed because she likes anal and has no gag-reflex.

Since everyone likes to apply labels to themselves and their problems these days, here's a bit of Freudian psychology for you to consider: The Madonna-Whore Complex.

As is succinctly expressed in the Wikipedia article on the topic: Men with this complex desire a sexual partner who has been degraded (the whore) while they cannot desire the respected partner (the Madonna).

It sounds like you're one of those people who can cope with the knowledge that a sexual partner has had previous sexual partners on an abstract level, but you have problems coping with any reminders that specific men did the same specific things with her that you have. If that's true, then you're definitely not unique in this; this is why most people avoid talking about the specific, intimate details of their prior relationships.

It sounds like you're fairly serious about this woman, so I can see how you would have liked the idea of being the first to have anal sex with her. But in purely practical terms, this seems to me pretty daft. The fact is that many women find anal sex very uncomfortable and just weird the first time, and that initial experience can make it a challenge for them to relax and enjoy subsequent anal sex with the same guy. It's really no different to PIV sex: if a woman finds the first time she has penetrative vaginal sex painful, that can make her feel fearful and cause her vagina to reflexively clench up the next time the same guy tries to put his penis in her vagina.

You're clearly one of those guys who's into anal sex, and so it seems to me a wholly positive thing that your girlfriend has already learned how to deal with that and she doesn't have to deal with any negative associations with you putting your dick in her ass.