Introducing new sex.

I want to introduce new sex stuff into mine and my girlfriends sex life. Things that she might be into, but might not be. Should I ask first or try jut try it and see how she reacts.

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I'm not sexually active enough to know 1
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  • misca

    If you're going to try things like anal sex, you better ask her first. Otherwise you're going to end up sleeping on the couch.

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  • Crudhouse

    Try it out unless it's super weird, in which case bring it up casually and see how your partner reacts.

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  • cookiesaregreat

    yup, ask her. definitely ask her. preferably when you're already 'going at it'. chances of her agreeing are higher that way.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

    If you're both mature enough to be having sex in the first place, you should be mature enough to discuss it without shame.

    Why don't you both make a list of what you would like to try, and what you never ever want to try, and then what you aren't into but will try

    then you can tailor a list for the two of you of things to experiment with

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