Interview = terrifying

My first interview was one of the worst experiences of my life.
A small part-time job.

I sat down, feeling good, I'm wearing a SUIT, guys! I look like a king in this thing.
"Ok, (name), we're just going to keep this informal and relaxed, so just answer as if you were talking to me normally." She smiled.
I think, "Oh good, informal."

Then comes the inevitable.
"Tell me about yourself."
"Why do you want to work here?"
"Can you think of a situation where you've had to..?"

..."Um," I fidget nervously. "Well. Ehhh... Can I, uh, like... Can I just have a moment to, like, think about it?"

"Yes, take your time."

Moments pass, and my mind is still totally unprepared for the question, however, I feel that to take up any more time thinking will just look weird, so I begin to make noises with my mouth, the occasional word slipping through.
"Ehhh, well I... I, eh, organised a trip to the cinema once. I had to persuade my friends to go..."

I manage about 5 sentences, none of which are particularly interesting, or even relevant to the interview.

Leaving the interview, I am just angry, disgusted. I think about how pointless the whole affair was. I could have just stayed at home.
I don't get angry at myself, but rather at the interviewer, and interviews in general. It's like they test your social skills more than your actual knowledge.

Needless to say I did not get the job.

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  • NothingxCrazy

    I was there except this wasn't my first interview.. it was about my 3rd. It was at a little retail store in the middle of a mall.
    Walked in, sat down.
    "Alright, you have 2min to tell me about yourself. Anything I'd need to know."

    Me.. "uhhh..... what do you need to know?"

    "Just your story"

    I was like... WTF!?!? I'm so unprepared for this..
    I have a problem with "free talking". If you ask me questions I'll be good and I'll keep them short and sweet. but telling me to just talk?... I freeze up. Fail.

    I told her a 30 second story of how I moved and settled in NC. Then she asked a few questions and I left.

    Needless to say, I also did not get the job.

    Next interview I had at a local hardware store, I nailed. It was calm and relaxing. The store manager was chill and cool. She offered me the job ON THE SPOT. At $9 an hour (minimum wage here is 7.50 I believe) so this was so perfect. I've been working here for almost a month now and love it. I might be bumped up to full time in another month also. I hit the jackpot.

    Just keep trying kiddo. :D You're young and have so much experience to get.

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      • NothingxCrazy

        I love you too, Anon!!

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  • Faceless

    My first time trying the interviews for a restaurant position I fucked it up, I was unprepared for the tell me about your self shit and the just want to get to know YOU shit. It was short and awkward like losing your virginity but the disappointment was way worse. Second time, I did some research on the business and answered ever question thoughtfully. Still didnt get the job, must be my hair I thought. Third interview I went in high off antidepressants, I was more like my joking around self when Im with friends, made the interviewer laugh when I answered every god damn question and guess what? I got the fucking job. To sum up... LIE even when its the truth.

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  • dappled

    You're looking at this really negatively. There's another way. You went to an interview, you got knocked down a little. Next time you go to an interview, are you going to know what to expect? Yes. Are you going to prepare? Yes. Are you going to stand a better chance of getting the job? Yes.

    Life is a learning process. You got yourself a lesson. If you'd have stayed at home, you'd have missed out on that. You've gained from this. Make the most of it.

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  • Mersaphe

    Dude that shit happens brah you know what im sayin, you gotta be prepared for whatever kinda crap those douchebag interviewers throw at you know what im sayin

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  • emilydoll

    Normalll

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  • Lol I love how it's basically the same questions in interviews but somehow we all end up being nervous and unprepared. Normal xD

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