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I'm a white guy and I really like black girls. They can be SOOO hot. Naturally, I don't have a problem seeing other white guys with black girls. However, I REALLY don't like it the other way around (black guys with white girls). I get the hypocrisy and the double standard of this, I really do, but is it normal?
I'm not attracted to black girls-aside from rare exceptions like the singer Cassie when she was younger and I find some half black/white girls can be really hot.
However I agree with you on black guys dating white girls, I've never liked it.
In general I find blacks to be a pretty despicable race, I'm speaking from experience. They tend to be bullies in school, they make extremely bad neighbors, who will steal from you and damage your property, refuse to compromise, are very petty and spiteful, they can make for terrible co-workers, I could go on and on.
There are always exceptions to the rule, for instance exemplary people like Col Allen West and Denzel Washington, but we're talking about the majority of regular black folk.
I think the media plays a huge role in forcing us into liking certain people when there isn't a reason to. Don't get me wrong, there's bad people in all races, but I think blacks take the cake.
So I think white girls sell themselves short and are taking on a whole host of problems by dating black men and they only realize their mistake much later, when they find Tyrone has 20 other baby-mommas and he's some dead-beat dad.
Anyways, it's a shitstorm that they could avoid if they had an ounce of intelligence. Then again, some white guys, esp. the lower classes tend to be abusers and wife-beaters. With middle-eastern (and muslim) men, that's a rule.
I'm also not keen on white girls dating asian men, but then I'm probably biased, being an Indian guy. I don't have a problem if a brown guy dates a white girl as long as he's not a muslim, a turbaned sikh or a lowlife. While I've dated different types of girls, I have a preference for attractive white girls.
"Tyrone has 20 other baby-mommas and he's some dead-beat dad" made me LOL
"the media play a huge role in forcing us into liking certain people when there isn't a reason to."
And back in the day it was socially accepted, and even encouraged, to be prejudice against an African American even though there was no reason to be.
Sure and the response to that was white guilt which now fawns over blacks, liberal universities and institutions which blame whites for blacks committing crimes and going to jail and so forth.
The pendulum swung the other way. If we were objective, we'd recognize that some black people are a detriment to society and they should be sent back to Africa. If they're law-abiding, treat others with respect and make an honest living, then there really isn't an issue.
Slavery is bad, but so is the holocaust. Humans have been killing and enslaving each other for thousands of years. The notion of equality among all people is a recent invention.
I have no sympathy for blacks who are given the opportunity to educate themselves but instead choose to party, fuck around and end up living shitty lives.
I'm Indian and have faced racism from blacks and whites growing up. But that didn't stop me from becoming a well educated professional. Does anyone feel sorry for Indians for the racism that they go through? We take it in stride, much like the Jews.
My homeland India which was once the richest and most advanced nation on earth was invaded by Arab muslim barbarians many centuries ago. As a consequence of the invasion, 80 million Hindus were slaughtered, over 10,000 temples were destroyed, our libraries were burned and millions of Hindus/Indians were sold into the Arab slave trade, do you see us crying about that now?
Despite that, India's becoming a rising superpower. Blacks can't seem to shut up about something that happened not to them, but their great-grandparents.
Don't get me wrong, I think that hate is a very ugly thing, no matter where it comes from, but much of that hate also comes from black people directed towards whites, browns and other people as well.
This is what the media refuses to acknowledge and I think people are fed up over being told who they should feel sorry for, their manufactured victims and who they should hate on (innocent whites).
Black on white crime (like rape, theft, murder) is 7 times higher than the reverse, but you don't hear about that from the MSM because it goes against liberal dogma which deems blacks as almost always being victims and whites are almost always the bad guys.
I think this is why you see a backlash and other people refusing to 'get with the program.' It's because we know better than the media and holier-than-thou liberals.
If you find black girls to be pretty, then that's fine. My problem is this (and don't take me wrong because I'm in an interracial relationship myself), that a lot of people go wrong with interracial. Not all do, but you see the common trend, no matter what the groups or genders are; where ppl start to notice a personal preference and sexualize it. All of the assumptions trail right along behind it too. Just be careful to keep your attractions in check to keep them healthy. That person, no matter their skin, is just a regular human being. Don't hold people up to a standard based on stereotypes or assumed social norms, because they might disappoint you and it isn't their fault if they do. All of that dehumanizes a person by your doing, and can you really say you care about someone you're doing that to? No one deserves that. I'm not saying that's what you're doing. I'm only saying keep that in mind and you should be fine.
i think the color of someones skin should not define if they are pretty or not. its their personality. if you like black girls then date them.
It's normal and I think guys of every race feel it. The difference is that in some cultures the dude would even kill his daughter/sister if a White guy dated her. It's a huge problem for me because I'm only attracted to girls from such cultures such as Indian,Pakistani,Arab. I accept that a guy from a different race dates white girls based on reciprocity but enrage when a guy from a repressive culture does. I'm not attracted to white girls so it isn't so much the idea of losing a girl than the hypocrisy of such cultures that I loathe.
Agree with you there bro. I've been finding that lately I'm more drawn to some middle-eastern girls who can be really attractive, like Arab and Persian. (Although there are hot Indian girls, I just prefer to date outside my race).
But I'm concerned if their crazy muslim family might come after me (as a non-muslim Indian guy) for dating their daughter, as they do in their countries. Plus if she's brainwashed by the same stupid backwards religion, then it becomes a wedge-issue between her and I.