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I'm a white guy and I really like black girls. Naturally, I don't have a problem with seeing other white guys with black girls. However, I REALLY don't like it the other way around (a black guy with a white girl). I get the hypocrisy of this, I really do, but is it normal?
Being a black girl who has dated white guys and has received all types of hate from both white an black people I would say that this isn't normal. Although it kinda is. You are certainly not the only white guy who feels that way. And I know PLENTY of black guys that get pissed off seeing a black girl with a white guy when they date outside their race all the time. It's a HUGE double standard and although it is common, I don't think it's normal or fair at all.
I think you are 100% correct. Although it is common, it's indeed not fair at all. I think it's something really primitive i.e. "Stay away from OUR women!" when there of course is no such thing as "our" women, since you're talking about free individuals. Also, it may actually be more about gender than about race, since men (of all races) tend to much more often have problems with CERTAIN interracial relationships than women. Maybe it has to do with insecurity i.e. "Is your own kind not adequate?"
Anyway, I feel really bad that you have received so much hate. You didn't deserve that. I will also try to be a bit more tolerant towards black guy-white girl couples.
I understand why you feel that way.
I've been into all kinds of guys and am still attracted to all kinds of guys; black, white, latino, asian, middle eastern, any mix, etc, but I do get that warm and fuzzy feeling when I see a black girl with someone outside of her race. It makes me feel like all the color barriers have been broken and maybe, just maybe humanity as a whole can be saved, haha.
Black girls get a really bad rap. We're "loud, obnoxious, rude, ghetto, bitter, ignorant".....not all of us are that way. A majority, unfortunately, are. Especially where I live. And I distance myself from them just so I'm not associated with them.
I look at it like, if a girl is with a black guy..it MAY just be a sexual thing.."black guys have the biggest dicks"..or, the black guy doesn't want to risk having a "nappy-headed baby" with "really dark skin"..now, that's just a possibility. Two of my brothers are with white women and I know their love is the real deal.
When the girl is black, it just seems a little more genuine to me, like they could actually care about each other, have the same interests, etc. I don't know. I'm black and brazilian, but I do consider myself black unless further asked of my background.
it is normal. It's a little weird, but understanding. I'm a black girl, into white guys, but you'll find that seeing a black guy with a white girl isn't weird anymore :P I think it's mainly about the bad rep that that type of interracial relationship is deemed. Maybe if you get to know a couple of those couples you'll like it more :)
I'm a white guy but the exact opposite. The sight of a tiny, creamy, skinny white girl being used by hung thugs is such a turn on for me. I'd even let my gf fuck a bunch at once while I sat there and got off on it. Gangbang her all night, bareback, and fill her holes up till they ooze. Hell yes.
I'm a white guy, and honestly I don't care about the girl's skin color, as long as she has a pretty face, nice tits, round ass, slim waist, interesting personality, then she's perfect in my eyes.
That's not what I meant, I meant that when I'm evaluating a girl color doesn't have any relevance to me, you can say I'm color blind lol :D
I know that my first post didn't answer your question, but all I'm trying to say that, I won't find it weird if I saw white girl with a black dude.