Insecurities

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I've been married now for almost 2 years but I'm still insecure of my husband's ex gf. Actually our love story was a whirlwind my husband had a 9 year relationship and I had a 4 years rel. when we met each other we fall in love and decided to break up our rel and be together. my rel with my ex bf at that time was shaky and it wasn't hard to break him up although there were begging and trying to patch up moments but I already decided to let go, my ex has an attitude that when u have petty quarrel he'll threat u that he'll leave u and that goes on and on, I was dependent on him wishing that I hv the strength to let go and my husband came and then he helped me through it. On the other side my husband really decided to break his gf which he said he hadn't felt something to her ex gf, his ex gf was a result of the girl insists on him before. Is it normal that I'm still insecure of the girl.. she's not that beautiful. I just don't understand where this feeling came from. help

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  • kittylitter101
    11 years ago

    Learn English before you try writing a story.

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    • Short&2thepoint
      11 years ago

      Seriously, why don't they chuck this trash when it gets reviewed?

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  • Acerbic
    11 years ago

    I had a hard time deciphering your post, but I'll try to answer as best I can with what I understood.
    It's completely normal to wonder about your husband's past loves to an extent. You said she's not that beautiful, but in truth it probably has little or nothing to do with physical attractiveness. You're likely just wondering what they had together, if they connected on a different level than the two of you do, etc, the list goes on for miles. Nearly everyone is curious about their significant others' exes at one point or another; the trick is not to worry about it too much. We all have a past, but it's over and done with.
    In short, it's perfectly normal to be curious, but don't let it bother you or make you feel insecure. He married you and not her for a reason. If it continues to bother you, perhaps try talking to him in a calm manner about your feelings.
    Best wishes,
    ACE

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  • Wüstenfuchs
    11 years ago

    Completely normal to be curious about exes. Continued curiosity doesn't really help much, though. Keep an open line of communication with your husband, and he'll try his best to assuage you.

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  • peterr2
    8 years ago

    Did you know your husband is a closet queer?

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