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I hate having a rubber in the way. Is it normal to have bb sex with people that you know are HIV neg and std free most of the time?
I hate them too. That's a great thing about a relationship between two std free people.
The problem is, you have to literally see test results. And if you are not in a monogamous relationship, how do you know who the other person is seeing? For example, the last young man has a boyfriend and a girlfriend. He said he mainly uses them for one night stands. Look, if all three are adults I dont see anything bad, but how does he know who THEY are seeing between encounters? Sorry, it may be normal to hate condoms, but NO sex is worth risking your health and possibly your life.
I hardly ever use them too, hate em. Who wants something strangling their dick and removing any sensation what so ever. I only have sex with people I know really well and trust. One guy and one girl I keep in my back pocket. I always use them for a one night stand though or if I'm having sex with a stranger. Being 25 and bi, I'm at the highest risk for HIV. So I stead carefully when the need arises.
"Most of the time"? Ha ha ha ... I've had unprotected sex and then had to go through all the tests and waiting to see if I've caught something unpleasant, nasty or fatal. Not worth it even if the sex is fantastic.
A good alternative is the female condom. I have used it in the past. It prevents disease as well.
My money is on medical technology advancing to the point where stds have all been cured and men and women both have their own healthy and easy birth control that is independent of each other. Then we can fuck anytime anywhere without fear and unwanted consequences. Freedom! I fully believe we will see this within our lifetimes, maybe soonish!
It's normal to hate them, they freakin suck. Any girls about to argue should go rub themselves through a pair of blue jeans for comparison first, as pleasure for the male is mostly dependent on friction
Just be sure to use AT LEAST one alternative, I'd say two.
Oh so it's only the man's pleasure that matters, is it? And I think you'll find the woman's depends not only on friction but also on not being afraid of catching an STD.
What does the last line mean? What alternatives are there for preventing STD's? I mean if you're actually going to have sex with another person?
I'm quite calm thank you and I was when I posted.
Your post wasn't clear about what alternatives you were referring to and I thought you were referring to STD's. I'm not in fact putting myself in any such situation and haven't done so for years and I'm too old to get pregnant anyway.
You take care too!
You got way more out of my comment than was actually there, you should calm down a bit. If you're putting yourself in situations where you're concerned about STDs absolutely use one. And alternative methods of birth control.
Take care.