Inn that the guy that used to like me doesn't talk to me at all now?

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Short story, this guy used to like me, I didn't (want to) realise, so I never paid attention to him. He got tired, but now he doesn't talk to me at all! I never told him I knew he liked me and I wasn't interested, so I don't know why he doesn't talk to me.
He flirts with more girls now, I could care less, but he was fun to talk to.
Is that normal, or was I too mean to him?

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  • iEatZombies_
    12 years ago

    A couple of things could've happened. One: He felt lead on. He got tired of it and moved on. Whether you did or did not lead him on doesn't matter. Two: He was looking to get a relationship or sex. Again, he got tired of trying. Either way, it's not friendship he's after. That's basically what he's probably saying in a nutshell.

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  • NothingxCrazy
    12 years ago

    People grow up and move on. Maybe he realized you didn't give a damn about his feelings and started looking for someone who did.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    If you couldn't care less, you wouldn't of made this story.
    You took too long, so he moved on. Don't blame him for you not meeting him half way.

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  • squeallikeasacofpigs
    12 years ago

    It really annoys me Americans say "I could care less" - IT MAKES NO SENSE!!! You should say I couldn't care less

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    • iEatZombies_
      12 years ago

      I am careless. Heh heh.

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    • disthing
      12 years ago

      I know exactly how you feel. Whenever I hear it it makes me cringe.

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    • Zippy
      12 years ago

      But couldn't "I couldn't care less" also mean that you DO care a lot and you can't picture caring less about it? English make no sense sometimes..

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      • squeallikeasacofpigs
        12 years ago

        No you fool!!!

        "I could care less" implies that you care to some degree, and that you COULD care less. You could technically care quite a lot and saying "I could care less" would still be true. To be able to 'care less' you would have to care to some degree, of course assuming that negative caring doesn't exist. Saying "I could care less" in fact rules out the very point that you are trying to make - that you don't care at all.

        On the other hand, "I couldn't care less" means exactly that. On a scale of 0 to 100 of caring, your level of caring is 0, and therefore you couldn't care less, thus perfectly explaining to whoever it is that you don't care at all. Again this is assuming that negative caring doesn't exist.

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        • Zippy
          12 years ago

          I see your points, but if you think about it, we're both correct.

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          • squeallikeasacofpigs
            12 years ago

            I love you.

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  • Ramit10
    12 years ago

    If you dont care why are you makin this post about him??

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  • Ldizzy1234
    12 years ago

    It sounds like he's had enough of unrequited love. You showed no interest, he probably felt like he was getting nowhere so said, 'fuck it, I'm gonna find someone who does care'.

    If anything, you probably just miss the attention you got from him. But I wouldn't bother him unless you really have the intention to be his friend or have a relationship with him. You'd be playing with his heart otherwise.

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  • ready2rumble
    12 years ago

    He is resented and that's 100% normal. How would you feel if you were chasing a guy that doesn't pay attention to you and only wants you around as a clown? I see that you are jealous because he is not flirting with you anymore. Next time flirt only with guys you like

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  • solidman
    12 years ago

    Lol I think I know how he feels because I'm in his shoes but it wouldn't hurt just to be friend. If not and your not interrested than why are you posting this??

    And ps I am begging and I don't mean to insult you but not be one of those sluts girls because It kind of sounding a little like you are.

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  • AusDingo
    12 years ago

    Yup, normal, he liked you, now he's moving on. Its what men do.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Yoor probably looking too much into it, he probably dosnt even notice he's doing it, in my experience we (girls) analyse guys too much when the most simple answer is the correct one... Sorry if I offend any guys I'm not calling yoo simple ! X

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  • lecitone
    12 years ago

    he's tired of waiting , he's just over you, it's annoying to think of him as an entertainment "he was fun to talk to" !! this is selfish he has feelings for you , please try not to be that kind of girls , if you're not ready to start a relationship with him just let him go and accept the fact that people wont wait for you forever !

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  • Isolated
    12 years ago

    If he didn't talk to you before he liked you, that just meant the attention you got from him was for the purpose of starting a relationship with you. Since you didn't look interested, he has no reason to talk to you anymore.
    Unless he plans to be a friend, he would see how you're doing and ask to hang out sometimes. He wouldn't ignore you if there was a mutual friendship between you both.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Sometimes it's not always about what you want from a friend but what they need from you; and it seems like he needs some space.

    If he is a good friend, then you might want to talk to him.

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