Inn that i feel like i'm the only real person left on the planet?

So, I feel really alone right now. Well I am alone of course, but I don't always feel that way even though I am. But this time I do. I don't really have any close friends, and I'm not even sure if I ever have before.

Everything that I do socially has to be initiated by me. And it's not that I'm planning some awesome party or some great night out with a lot of other people. I just happen to find something going on where there might be people, and I decide to go. And then I do go. No one ever calls me and I don't get invited anywhere. Which only makes sense because there is no one out there to call.

It just feels like where ever I go, no matter who I talk to, or whatever connection I try to make, I always end up back by myself again in the end. It's like I'm in a TV show where one episode ends and everything is fantastic, but when you wake up the next morning, another episode begins and everything has reset itself back to that familiar starting point.

Sometimes I wonder if other people that I talk to know how alone I am, and that's what's driving them away. Sometimes I worry that even if they don't know, they'll eventually figure out how alone I am, and they'll go off running.

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Comments ( 13 )
  • Captain_Kegstand

    I have been there, especially when I moved to this town and had absolutely no friends or family. Its tough but keep your head up! Things get better!

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  • SharP

    *checks watch* are you done talking about yourself yet? i want to go find someone who doesnt pity themselves and act like theyre the only person on this planet

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  • NeuroNeptunian

    That really depends. If this is the attitude that you carry when you are interacting with others than of course that is going to seep into your social relations. I know for me, people who are negative can be very emotionally draining v.v

    It's normal, but I can't see this improving unless you change your attitude... Either fish in a different lake or use different bait. Or both, hell...

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  • suckonthis9

    It is unfortunate that our society does often alienate many people, who are usually good-natured and well-intentioned. Some people just do not 'fit in' with the crowd, simply by being themselves, and following others. I think what you might need, is something that is unique or original that will gain the attention of others (without making a fool out of yourself). This does not necessarily mean something physical, but rather a way to express yourself. You then might want to add something (an object) to this.

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  • howaminotmyself

    The more you fear this, the more it will become true. Don't torture yourself so much, you're not really alone.

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  • Aleks85

    You probably just suck at life... Hey it happens.

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  • thoughtfulopt29

    Same here.

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  • Eternal_Wisdom

    No one here knows you personally so they can't judge the situation properly. you could be the problem not everyone else or everyone you happen to meet might be the problem. it's impossible to say really.

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  • Garglemysac

    Have you considered that you might be an asshole or just really boring?

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    • suckonthis9

      Have you considered that you might be an asshole or just another cliche?

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      • Garglemysac

        I have considered that I might be an asshole, and found that my suspicions were correct, I can live with that. You might want to do some self evaluating yourself.

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        • suckonthis9

          I'm trying.

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  • Shackleford96

    I have felt that way at times.

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