Inn gf kissed ex 2 weeks into dating

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Been dating a girl for almost a year now. We have a great relationship overall. About 7 months ago she confessed that she had kissed her ex 2 weeks into our relationship. Mind you she went through a rough breakup (with a different ex) several months prior to meeting me and was used to having guys use her. Being her first 'boyfriend' in a while in the midst of douchebag guys, she really didn't believe me or trust that I would stick around. The traumatic part of it was that I was staying over her house at the time.

Since talking about it, she realized where she went wrong and cut this guy from her life and has really worked on earning trust back. Is this normal? I know relationships arent perfect but it's so hard not to feel like a victim. Thank you guys!

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  • Ellenna
    7 years ago

    It seems pointless to me to even think about something that happened so long ago just into your relationship before she knew it would become so longlasting.

    If you value her and the relationship you need to move on from this and let go of any resentment you're still carring.

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  • mysistersshadow
    7 years ago

    If you feel like it was that wrong and it could happen again then get out of the relationship if not then you need to forgive and forget holding onto resentment will kill the relationship over time and thats a long slow way to have it end. Doesn't sound like a good way to live IMO.

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  • riffraffy
    7 years ago

    This girl isn't any good and I think deep down you know that. I also think you have a long way to go in understanding attraction. Obvious tell when a guy refers to another guy as a 'douchebag'.

    Read 'No More Mr Nice Guy' and things will clear up for you.

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    • brachs
      7 years ago

      "douchebag" as in cheated on her and made her feel like shit.

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      • riffraffy
        7 years ago

        A serial 'douchebag' dater is more than a red flag. It's an acquired taste most women have. Learn why and incorporate the aspects that benefit you.

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