Inn for a girl i barely know to ask alot about my dead firstborn?

A year and 8 months ago, i met this girl named Ana. Ana is not you're average girl.

She lies, she listens, and she repeats what she hears as her own story with such intense yet somehow over-dramatic emotion and detail.

But she reveals very little about her true self.

Anyway, she latched on to me, then, very eagerly, "because we have the same birthday" same day, month, year, and only 3 hours apart.

I thought it was cool too, dont get me wrong.. but she WAS ECSTATIC.
She told me how her mom was always shady with details of her being born and that she always wondered if she had a sister. and we "look alike!"

I KNOW WHO MY PARENTS ARE. And they are both dead and buried..
This girl cant be serious.

So she's crying over my shoulder, meanwhile im comparing us.
-She's like 5"11 and nobody in my family is taller than me. im 5"2. (except my dad, he was 5"6)

She's chubby and thick as hell, im not and nobody in my family is. Me my mom and my REAL sister all have the same body type. Literally. Short, small waist,same skin tone but my sister looks more tanned) little extra belly fat (babies hahahaha) beautiful face, long hair although mine is very curly and black (african dad), while theirs is straight as a pin and dark brown/burnt red)

So our only similarities is curly dark hair (tho hers isnt very curly unless wet, its more straight-ish) and small chinky eyes.

Shes from Dominican Republic and i was born in san francisco, cali.

BUT SHE CAN SIT IN MY FACE AND CRY! ABOUT HOW WE MAY REALLY BE SISTERS, FOR REAL, oh my god, OH GOD, WE'RE SISTERS!!

But she's dead serious.

ANYWAY ANYWAY, a few years ago my 3 month old died in the crib during the night.
So we woke up to a nightmare with no escape. And as terrible and dark and HARD as that was for us (as in me and my boyfriend (My tribe forbids me from marrying since both of my parents died before the age of 14, young adulthood)) we eventually coped with it.. or so it may seem anyway.
I learned not to think of the bad memory, as opposed to thinking of ALL the other memories. Or to just not think about it at all, or very little. As i havent fully coped, i mean WHO CAN?

....

Anyway, every time i talk to her (not often, heh) she ALWAYS brings up my son. ALWAYS. And not like "oh how was birth, do u have strechm blah blah" NO ITS LIKE, "So hows your day, omg i missss you! hows your baby? DO YOU MISS YOUR DEAD BABY? LIKE HOW WAS THAT? LIKE HOW DID YOU FEEL HOW DID YOU KNOW HE DIED, DID YOU WAKE UP AND FIND OR DID YOU DREAM IT OR WAS HE BLUE?
But then she tells me some minute detail about me, gloating about how good her memory is..

Like whhhhhhaaaat the fusc?
I can tell she means no harm. Shes a nice girl. But i mean jeez, she wants to hear the story every. time. we. talk.

I answer in awkward chuckles and mumbles and she just goes on and on, no matter how i answer.

Sorry for the story. I just wanted yall to get a good understanding of how scary she is.

*****Is this girl normal? **** Should i avoid her..

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  • Convicts.Bitch

    Sorry for your loss. Seriously stay away from her this is freaky shit. You should call mental health on her have her put in an institute. (really sorry about your baby made me cry when i read that part)

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  • Avant-Garde

    The impression I get is that she's lonely and desperate to have someone to connect with, hence her trying so hard to make a case that you're both somehow related. I feel sad when I read that part.

    The obsession with your dead baby is, though odd, probably another attempt at trying to connect with you. She wasn't there to experience it with you. I'm sure she realises just how significant your child's death was for you and his father (my sincerest condolences, I can't imagine the pain you must've gone through). I feel that she is trying to experience the pain you both felt by asking you this. She wants to be the sister that you can confide in and share your feelings with, like real sisters.

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    • You see, i thought the same thing. Which is why i tried to remain friends with her.
      You know, i see some of myself in her . Not the crazy part bt the desperation to have someone to be close to.

      Bt i cant get over the fact that she always asks the same questions over and over about my firstborn, or the lies she tells.

      I want that close friendship too, dont get me wrong. We both have that silly, yet quiet but still like to party type of personality.

      But she lies. And you can never tell whats truth or not. She says she's been raped too, as one night i told her about my being raped, and that she as well conceived and that the name tattoed on her breast is her baby's name. And that it happened around the ages of 11-13 (she changes it).
      But her old "friend" says she never was pregnant around that time, and that she was told the name belonged to her sister.
      And that when they went to {name of building} they used to have her drugged up and she'd be drooling on herself. Bt never said more than that.

      She posts pics of her "baby" bt her friend says thats her sisters baby, or a pic of one of her nephews. its always a different baby with a light complexion and curly hair that u wudnt know was a girl or boy.

      So im torn between running like wild fire away from her or cautiously being friends..

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  • Ellenna

    Stay away from her, she has serious mental problems.

    She can't be around much or you wouldn't have time to write such a l o n g post.

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  • KeddersPrincess

    I would cut off all contact with this person.

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  • RoseIsabella

    She's bat shit crazy...RUN!!!

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