Incest relationship of husband

Hi..this is PCH, 27years female from India and jus got married 3 months ago...i met my husband around 9 months ago and we got engaged in jus a month after dat meeting as we fell in love with each other...at that time he told me about his family wich is a disturbed one always had fights and all...one of his aunt his mother's sister committed suicide and her 3 children were living at his home...one of his cousin sister was his best friend who was married when i met him...he told me about her that she is the only one who understand him well and he has done a lot for her..he jus cant see tear in her eyes and all...wen i got married she suddenly felt insecured and i started doubted on her...though my husband is very good and he loves me so much...at one point of time i felt like there is noone who can love me more than him...she tried to make querell in between us...i dont like her at all...once she visited us and told me many things abt my husband like he was cared her so much..he always used to call her for hours...he visited home even in midnight from 1600 km for her only...he always get her to sleep...he loves her so much..so many things...i asked my husband what the hell was dat she was talking abt....he called her up and told her to get out of his house dont show her face again...and he told me she is feeling insecured of u so dats why she is behaving in such manner..though we fought a lot over it as many things i could relate which i told my husband to me... now one day i was going trhough my husband's chat history on gmail...i was shocked to see that he has chatted her for past two year...vedio chat..they were in relationship...they used to get naked on web cam and would do oral sex and all dirty stuff...so many chats and all...i got mad and asked to my husband about this...den he confessed everything and told me that he was in relationship with her...initially it started from emotional feelinga and the care he did to her after her mother's death...den due to dis disturbed family he gets closed to her...he was in love with her..and den they ended up doing sex with each other...as he was working in mumbai and she was in haryana at his native place...he would visit to her on every alternative month for 8 to 10 days..they will have sex intercourse and every crazy things...and apart frm this they will be on ph for hours for every day or they will be on chat, vedio chat or sms...they were in touch for 24 hrs...nobodies knows abt this...they started it in june 2010 and in december 2011 she got married...they even had sex on her wedding day..they continued it after her marriage also...they discontinued dis sex thing in the month of may 2012 or can say did it last time in may 2012...i met him in the month of june 2012 and we got engaged in july ..a very next month..he dint tell me anything abt this..he loved me so much..he left his job from mumbai and shifted to delhi for me...we were so happy...den his cousin came in between and i came to knw of all this... now i am mad and i just dont knw what to do....he confessed everything and asked for forgiveness...he said dint tell me becuase he dint want to lose me and he thought that nobody's past is important ..i want to keep u happy and away from all this....jus give me last chance...i nver let u down..jus keep me aside from this thing and den think abt me...wen i committed this thing..u were not there...wen u came in my life...i was out of this.... please suggest me what to do as i love him so much............

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Comments ( 5 )
  • humhainna

    Pch, madam, all these things werein the past and before your marriage. He was a free agent and so were you. I know most Bharti women don't have sexual intercourse before marriage and
    Keep themselves pure for their husband. I applaud you for that. But Some men are guilty and do fall short of their wives expectations. Please it's hard but for your future's sake forgive him.
    You will never be able to forget it but with the passage of time the sore you have just now will
    Have less impact upon you. Please build a happy married life and don't spoil your happiness
    By indulging with the past which is never going to come. Start your future today not before
    Your marriage. I live in thwest where nearly all Youngsters had enjoyed their sexual pleasure
    Before marriage and they expect after the marriage faithfulness. Some do stay faithful and some don't but in India mostly couples stay faithful. I hope you build your future with happiness.

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  • MissCooper

    This story is way to long

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    • pch

      Miss cooper...kindly read below and advise me please.........

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  • openfreak69

    I would advise you that you should accept their relationship wholeheartedly. Sharing is caring. You will also get one more person to play with. Stop being so possessive like typical indian women. Sex is only a matter of few minutes love is much more than it. Embrace his love towards you and her. You all can be happy together.

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  • pch

    My husband had a relationship with his first cousin who used to stayed at his home..he was working out of town and every second month he used to go to her and spent 10 days with her...he was in love with her and they had sex several times...they used to do web sex chat and masturbating on video chat...they were so involved..she got married a year ago and they continued having sex even after her marriage too...I met him jus 4 months ago and fell in love..we got married 2 months before and I came to know all this shit through his chatting records on his email id...he loves me so much..he left her after coming me in his life..but she was behind our life...now everybody came to knw abt this...he is asking for my forgiveness...please tell me what to do??????

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