Inaccessible beautiful women on the bus.

Being a young guy going to college i often always look at ways to broaden my horizons and expand the overall scope of my life. Taking the bus home from work one day i see people of all classes, ages and looks. It seems as though each time i get on to take my trip home sitting across from me or near me is a stunning and beautiful woman beaming with beauty generally around my age. Its agonizing! sitting there looking at the perfectly chiseled features of one i wish could be mine knowing there is nothing i can do to bring her into my world. All i can do is sit there and daydream about something that i know can't and will not happen because my mind is unable to process an idea to somehow get this woman to engage with me socially. I mean what i supposed to do? ask her out in a crowded bus, risking embarrassment in front of dozens of people and make the ladder half of my ride awkward for all of us? its painful, day in and day out the same routine, the same dreams and the same disappointment of doing absolutely nothing. It seems as though i can do anything but this, i'm able to do many things, many productive and successful things, but this i fail at always and its weakening me! Its draining my confidence draining my energy and each night when i lay in bed i wish i had the processing power to be able think of a solution to access the inaccessible women beyond the warmth of my home, but day after day i fail to. is it normal that this bothers me so much? solutions?

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  • Lifeistooshorttotakeseriously

    I'm the girl you described. When you sit opposite me avoiding eye contact acting all weirded out it makes me uncomfortable. Smile. Say Hi. If you are reading a book ask me if I've read it. Tell me you really like my shoes. Whatever. Treat me like a person. I'm not an object. If you really want me to notice you make me laugh. No lines just "Hi my name is... :))) trust me any girl who rebuffs a genuinely friendly approach is ugly on the inside! If you make me laugh I'll wonder if you're on my bus tomorrow.

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    • I love it! Thank You!

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      • Lifeistooshorttotakeseriously

        You are welcome! The best opening line I ever heard was a man who when sitting next to me said "I spy with my little eye something beginning with r" of course it was road but then it was my turn... My stop was first but he saved my seat for the following day!

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  • Digsbie

    I kn its extremely hard at first but if u force urself to talk to just one of these women, the next will be easier the next even easier. soon u will beable to approach and talk to women without all the anxiety. believe me ur life will change and u just might meet the ONE. good luck

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  • DuHast

    There's always reasons not to, but they're usually not true.

    Wait till you're really older, you don't look as good, and you'll think "shit, I was such an idiot for wasting so much time when I was younger". People don't regret starting conversations with pretty girls, they regret not doing it.
    You really don't have much to lose... and you're in no worse position than other guys you're age. And probably the best position you'll ever be in, in your life...

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    • Wow thanks DuHast, i really needed that!

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      • DuHast

        Really glad to help!

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  • matthewkoehler

    I know exactly what you mean. I see so many beautiful young women everyday and it just physically hurts that none of these ladies will never be a part of my life. They will never come to appreciate or respect what I have to offer. Human relationships are so random, two people who were destined for each other, soulmates, or someone who you could potentially have a lot of compatibility with, some girl you could love again and again and always discover something new fresh and exciting about her, you might never cross paths with her ever.

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  • Bluejayy

    it's because you're fat and smelly

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    • Not fat, i have a nice and pretty average build, i hate trolls get out.

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  • Ratman

    Any woman riding on a bus during morning or evening rush hour is more then likely a working person just like you are. If she is beautiful that means she gets hit on by guys with money driving expensive cars. Why the fuck would she be attracted to you in this kind of setting? Dude you are a working stiff riding a bus. I'd suggest that you pick a more "I'm not a loser" setting to get all goggle eyed towards her: A decent after work bar, say. A place a dude would be more apt to engage in quiet conversation, offer to buy her a drink kind of place. And you will be dressed better. Get your head out of the clouds young man. If you want to bag one of these fine foxes you need to develop a workable plan of action with all sorts of plan B's and plan C's and shit. And don't forget to wear plenty of body armor under those decent set of clothes. A beautiful woman will carry her carefully concealed fully loaded weapon in case she needs to fire a warning shot if you get a bit out of hand in your excitement. Or she might try to "wing you" one. So be careful and come fully protected. Good luck.

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    • RamenNoodleMaster#3

      Dude thats terrible advice, not everyone lives in Shit...angel.. oops i mean los angeles where riding the bus is a sin. I think its very sad for someone to put themselves through all that nonsense just to bang a hot bimbo. An apartment are u kidding me? and additional 1000 dollars a month to get a small chance to sleep with a whore. i don't think so, i'd just grow a pair get off at her stop and talk to her after her stop, this site is full of virgins, with terrible dating advice so sad.

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      • Ratman

        The Op was talking about a beautiful woman. Not those skanks you are apparently used to. I mean anybody, even a total loser like you can get a blow job from some dive bar skank. You're out of your league here, loser. I would appreciated if when someone asks advice on how to get next a real woman. A lady, not some back alley crack whore, if someone asks for advice I would appreciated if you just shut the fuck up. Now please crawl back in your hole and die, loser.

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        • RamenNoodleMaster#3

          Ratman, im glad your name mirrors your terrible advice. Most women these days are whores, you clearly don't know many women because most women i know and believe me i generally hang out with at least 8s, i don't like male friends too much bull. And i can guarantee you that regardless of how "cute" or innocent a girl behaves inside she is a raging bimbo ready to tango, but you'd never know that since your balls have cobwebs on them. Although i don't like average male friends the male friends i do have think like me, one of them, a chubby guy with a decent ego and a strong personality is out with 9s and 10s because he has the balls to go up to a woman and ask her out if he's interested, im just suggesting that the OP get a pair and take action if she says no, go to the next girl rinse and repeat.

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    • Curious-trans

      Like that other guy said that is terrible advice

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  • registered

    Focus on your education and career. It will be easy once you can flash money in front of the female chimps of our species. They're animals, and shiny valuable-looking objects will draw them in. Until then, please don't put them on a pedestal for the sake of the rest of us. They don't deserve it.

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    • ha ha! well said agreed.

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  • Dad

    Create eye contact with her.
    Say hi to her as you pass by her.
    If you don't get any response, THEN do what the others stated.
    It's not about looks, money or status (on a bus), just be confident that you are you uniquely.
    By the way, if you are not picking up any good signs from her towards you, then obviously stop gorking at her it may begin to look stalkerish.

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  • LittleGirlRapedAndSodomised#P1

    "Inaccessible Beautiful women on the bus." Are you talking about a really hot chick that's wheelchair bound? *hint hint*

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  • riffraffy

    Focus on your looks. You just wrote a huge paragraph about hers. Realize that women are even more vain than you are.

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