In relationship with step daughter

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Step daughter divorced husband moved back home
She was depressed and i told her over and over she was great person and very good looking
I always had crush and loved her not just sexual,she is great person.I told her this
I broke up with my wife and she contacted me next day and asked if i wanted her
I started relationship but lots of problems.Can't do much,got caught.
Now she is not sure she can continue

try and get her to stick with it 14
let her go 29
go back to step father 5
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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago | pl

    Sounds like you took advantage of this girl at her weakest moment, and I think you should be ashamed of yourself.
    Let her go and stay away from her.

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    • chester1988
      9 years ago

      Only told her stuff because she was constantly crying
      My divorce totally separate and nothing happened before
      I was amazed when she came to me and wanted relationship
      Asked her over and over if she really wanted this until she told me to shut up

      Have asked her many times to let me go back to step dad

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      • thegypsysailor
        9 years ago

        Sounds like she held a gun to your head and forced you to take advantage of her. Sorry, I guess I didn't understand things clearly.

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        • chester1988
          9 years ago

          No my falt i should have not tried so hard to make her feel good and came to her aide to put her back on feet
          I could have say no but hindsight is always 20/20
          I really do love her and i made mistakes i can't change
          What is best for her is what is important to me

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  • dirtybirdy
    9 years ago

    Pinky, are you pondering what I'm pondering? I think so Brain, but if Jimmy cracked corn and no one cares, why does he keep doing it?

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    • Shackleford96
      9 years ago

      I miss that show. Good childhood memories right there :)

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      • dirtybirdy
        9 years ago

        Sigmund Freud would have a field day with you, Pinky.
        Ah, he liked sports then, did he?

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  • Faceless
    9 years ago

    Yeah... thats fucked. And now your fucked. Enjoy being destroyed!

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  • Darkoil
    9 years ago

    We're not agony aunts you know.

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    • chester1988
      9 years ago

      Don't understand your comment

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      • Darkoil
        9 years ago | pl

        Bloopity blah ho ha.....is that any clearer?

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  • RoseIsabella
    9 years ago

    You should probably drink some delicious bleach or antifreeze.

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    • chester1988
      9 years ago

      Problem ain't me i love her and don't want to hurt her,but can't change what happened especially being caught.I really want best for her

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  • chester1988
    9 years ago

    Well its over and the sad part i lost daughter who i really loved.Will always regret it

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  • chester1988
    9 years ago

    I never planned it but i did like her at about 22,she said she new but i tried to hide it

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  • Avant-Garde
    9 years ago

    You took advantage of her. I know you love her but, you could've at least waited until she had healed from this.

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    • chester1988
      9 years ago

      I didn't plan on divorce and she came to me.I asked her first 10 times if she was sure.I just broke up day before,her divorce 6 months before

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  • mystery7
    9 years ago

    Just interested to know the age difference between you and whether you've only ever know the step daughter as an adult or also as a child and then as an adult? That has some bearing on whether it's 'normal' or not.

    It may even be legal in some states of the US, but not sure about that. However, I am not one to pass judgement.

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    • chester1988
      9 years ago

      13 when met
      26 and 45 relationship

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  • chester1988
    9 years ago

    Let her go is basically what i just did told her I'm blocking her calls,text and Facebook.I told her i love her and I'm here if she needs me but she needs to choose again to come get me if she wants me,to be honest i hope she does.But I'll let her make decision

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