In my family, i am the ugliest

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Back in their college years, my mom was the "hot stuff" among the men and my dad was such a pretty boy even a gay tried to flirt with him. My sister was scouted to appear in a beauty product ad, and my little sister was a model for the school's brochure. My older brother was the main character in a short film his class was making.

My sister just has to WALK PAST my class to have the guys go all "Whoah she's hot!" and my little sister is "cute" to all of my friends. They've never said it to my face, but I'm sure they're thinking, the other two sisters are pretty but this one isn't.

I know people say that "ugly" doesn't exist. But it does. I don't know what to do. I don't think there's ANYthing for me to do. I changed my hair style, changed my wardrobe, the likes. The feeling is still there. At first I figured it was because I was fat, so I lost weight since then. But I am still ugly. No guy have ever asked me out, but plenty have asked my two sisters out. I can list many instances where it certainly proves that my two sisters are extremely pretty and hot. But when it comes to me, I can list none.

There was this time in class, the guys and girls were having fun making up pairings among our classmates and giggled and all that. When someone mentioned me with some guy, the idea just fell flat and was quickly replaced with another idea of a funny couple, to which they immediately laughed at. After that, I just wondered, am I really THAT ugly?

I don't know. I just feel so abnormal; abnormally ugly. Is it normal to feel like this?

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  • CountryRoads
    13 years ago

    My sister and I were the same way, when I was younger.
    In middle school, my older sister was beautiful. Like, EVERYONE in the school stared at her. I was always so jealous, because I was in an awkward little-boy looking phase.
    Anyway, I know how terrible it feels. But, stay confident. Love who you are. Because when I got out of that phase, I won pageants and modeled, and my sister's friends were the ones wanting me. Tables turn.
    Everyone goes through that thinking process. Feeling ugly IS normal, although you shouldn't. Just love who you are.
    Plus, looks fade. Be smart. Be funny. Those characteristics last forever.

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  • firefly88
    13 years ago

    Who says "ugly" doesn't exist???? It sure does!

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  • BoredGuy
    13 years ago

    I can truthfully answer if you are ugly or not, but I can't see you :)

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  • loyally
    9 years ago

    Lift weights, do yoga, and get toned. I promise that everyone will stare at your sexy body.

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  • Violet_Heart
    12 years ago

    I think it's creepy when guys stare me and I get nervous when they ask me out. Even when I dressed really crappy and bummy this guy still asked for my number! =[ I'm not even hot or pretty I just have this bad luck of perverts around me =|

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  • iHeartDinosaurs
    13 years ago

    Beauty is only skin deep. I believe that someone shouldn't like someone for there looks, but for there beautiful personality.

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  • sweetpea92
    13 years ago

    I wish I could store this in head... "Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder" so what people don't find YOU attractive. Someone will, trust me. I used to have a crush on someone as I was younger just because of her personality. And with it came her external beauty.

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  • anarchy-is-glory
    13 years ago

    hold your head up high, dont let anyone take you down.

    be proud, i thought i was ugly and i have an awesome girlfriend i love.
    Its not all about the looks, its about confidence too. If you feel preety, you are preety, if you feel ugly then change your way of looking at yourself.
    Never change for others, do it for yourself, make yourself comfortable.

    good luck! (:

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  • mmarkk
    13 years ago

    Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Don't be so hard on yourself

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  • Sixpounder72
    13 years ago

    I think it is abnormal to feel that way I'm sure your hot but it's a matter of opinion when it really comes down to it so no worries you'll find the person who sees past your so called "ugliness" and likes you for you! Enjoy yourself

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  • Who_Fan4Life
    13 years ago

    Plastic surgery abounds!

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  • yomamaisahoe
    13 years ago

    The way u wrote "a gay" is just so wrong!

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    • b454
      13 years ago

      I don't think she meant anything by it. Relax. Listen girly, don't compare yourself to others so much. I know how you feel, but it will only make things worse. Do you project an insecure attitude? Meybe that's why no one has asked you out. Your time will come. Worry not my dear :)

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