In love with the boss

(NOTE: sorry for the length and my errors I'm typing this on a phone) I am a senior in high school I got my first job at a grocery store. A few weeks working at the store I meet one of the co-managers. He did not work regularly, but at the time he had to, so I saw him quite often. Most of the time on my shift everyone I worked with was males. So every chance they got they would flirt with the customers. Or they would joke around with me. I began to notice the manager taking interest on me, and it wasn't just games anymore. One day he asked for my phone number, and I gave it to him. Please keep in mind he appeared quite young, ( mid twenties ) and I did ask if he was single and he said yes. At the time I was a virgin and I wanted to give it up to a responsible, respectable man, with no feelings attached (had a bad break up, didn't want to fall in love). So I thought he was the perfect guy and we had sex. A month later he comes to the store on his day off with his whole family, pregnant girl and friend kids. I confronted him, and he acted like he was innocent as if I never ask if he was in a relationship. Another month goes by he is still flirting, texting, asking if we could do it again, and I continued to say no. Keep in mind he was my first and last at the time. So one day I give end we have sex for the second time. After this I was feeling guilty because I knew this time, but I had a connection with him that I never had with a guy. I wanted that to be the last time so every time he would text me(not often) I would tell him no. Like two months later we do it for the third time, and to be honest I feel attached. I'm not the type would let guys in in any way, especially physically. So with him being the only one who I have let in its hard to let go. The last time I found out he is actually in his early thirties, which means his lies never stops. I know I am in the wrong too, I'm just trying to get out of this situation. Although they are not married I'm ruining a family right now. I'm hear for advice please help me if you can and thank you in advance.

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41% Normal
Based on 27 votes (11 yes)
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Comments ( 5 )
  • Faceless

    You already know what to do, you dont need help from weirdos like me but here goes. You need to stop fucking this guy. DUHHH! Of course he makes you feel special cause he just wants to fuck you. To make it easier you could quit your job and find another one. You should of quit a long time ago. But now its too late, you feel special, you caught feelings so now its time to feel the opposite meaning of the word crush.

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  • Sog

    I voted normal because it's normal for someone so young to do something so reckless and stupid.

    This man took advantage of you, and it made you feel really bad. Maybe out of this you will learn why it's important to have some self respect and self control.

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  • thegypsysailor

    I really hope when you've got a couple of kids with a guy, some slut like you fucks his brains out so you will know the pain you are going to cause (or have caused).
    What goes around, comes around.

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  • tampabayallstar

    Evidently you ARE they type that is easy.

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  • DubstepismyMJ

    Wait... You gave your virginity to a guy you didnt even LOVE. Not only that YOU wanted to have no attachment for your first time O.O.
    And to add insult to injury, you thought you wouldnt grow any feelings when you went intimate, and shared hot passion, skin on skin contact that is sex, ESPECIALLY for your first time?!?!

    OMFG i cant even... Please tell me this is a troll.

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