In love with teacher or lust?

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I've had this person for a teacher for four years and I just started liking him at the beginning of this year. Everything about him seems wonderful. I love his personality, sense of humor, and he has a gotee:).but idk if I'm just kidding myself because it seems like he looks at me all the time. I walk by him in the hall and he pretty much checks me out. but am i just kidding myself thinking that he could like me too?

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  • tomas
    13 years ago

    It's lust, come on and enjoy yourself for once. Not if he's married though,

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  • Phaeteon
    15 years ago

    It's very common to develop attraction in the situation that you described. Very common.

    Unfortunately, as pointed out before, it is the situation most likely to ruin lives.

    You said it's 4 year now, so I'm going out on a limb here in assuming that you will soon no longer be a student beneath this man? If that's the case, do a little homework...

    Is he married? If he is, then walk away. You don't want that trouble. If not, then give it a little time, real love waits, and once you're not in a position to ruin this man's life (i.e., you're not his student anymore), then stop in and say hi, see what happens.

    If you can't picture waiting, then it's probably just lust and still not worth it. Life may be short, but you're too young to ruin it already.

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  • Jim_Pfoss
    15 years ago

    Well, you leave out a lot of important details, but it sounds like you want what you want, and you don't care if you ruin the man's life.
    Yeah, he's probably tempted, but you're not worth losing his job, reputation and family. That's what you call "love?"

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  • funnymoments
    10 years ago

    you will never know !!! i had this situation before and still in love without knowing his feelings

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  • CountryRoads
    13 years ago

    It's lust. He's trained to deal with students who feel this way; it happens all the time. Fantasize about him, but don't try to make it into anything it's not. If you really love him, you'll want to protect his career and his reputation.

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    • WordWizard
      11 years ago

      I have to agree with this.

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  • Mastersash
    13 years ago

    what?? go for it!!

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  • wontwork
    15 years ago

    Well, it COULD be love. But I highly dought it. I would say keep you're distance.Anyway, depending on your age difference he could just be a creep. Also, it's best if you don't go for it plus if hes married, bad idea, real bad idea. and you don't want to reck your life if you love him, right? It's better to have loved and lost then never loved at all.

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