In love with my teacher.

I'm in a heck of a mess. Okay, so, I'm in love with my teacher. I'm not that old, I'm actually quite young. He's 34, married, and he's also a pastor at a christian church. He also has two kids. He knows I'm in love with him, and he won't even look at me. I look at pictures of him, and I just start crying. I really don't want these feelings. It's making my life miserable. So many of the tiniest, simplest things remind me of him, too. And on the weekends, I miss him terribly. And I don't sleep at night, because I think of him all the time. And yes, I know it will never happen or anything related to that, but I still have these uber strong, uncontrollable feelings for him. How do I stop these feelings? I really need help...

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  • Well, at least your head is still on your shoulders. Good on you.

    The guy - who is your age & available - is going to be pretty lucky to be the recipient of your passion. Watch out fella!

    In the meantime, keep telling yourself the truth - your feelings for this teacher are unwanted and inappropriate. You'll snap out of it.

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  • Justin_Case

    It sounds like you want a older guy
    to be with , You should find a older
    bf , Not no perv and that might take
    away that feeling
    I don't know what else to say
    there is probably like a 20%%
    chance that you and your
    tacher will be lovers

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  • funnymoments

    i feel ya girl !!
    to forget about him :
    1-burn all his pictures.
    2-go to some where alone and scream that you love him and want tp forget about this feelings.
    3-don't go to his church.
    4-don't be nice to his kids actually don't ever come near them.
    5-don't try to know what he likes or loves.
    6-take another way from his way to home or to school.
    7-change from his class.
    8-don't tell your friends about this they will make things worse.
    9-take care of yourself more then you do( go to restaurant,dress well, meet people)
    10-find a person is totally different from him.
    11- GOOD LUCK :)

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  • marktwain05

    A girl was also in love with me. I waas 38. She just wanted to be interested in her, nothing else. she hadnt had any Bf. We had travelled many times she wantedd to have fun, talk, laugh etc.I experienced it a few times. So its normal that you are in love , but youwill forget him after your graduation.Dont try to offer him to flirt or else?

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  • sxcrobertson

    I completely understand where your coming from except i've only like my world history for a little while and i mean even in these past couple of weeks i've fallen deeply. He's 31 and I find myself daydreaming about having a future with him he's not married or has kids though so I don't know how you feel on that one. But I think about my teacher a whole lot too except he doesn't know that I like him a lot and I don't plan on telling him anytime soon. I'm just trying to hang in there and wait til my daydreams of him stop but at the looks of it there not going to for a while. Maybe you shouldn't look at pictures of him if it's just going to make you cry that's no good. But I understand how you feel it's frustrating as hell but lots of people develop feelings for teachers it's hard not to when your cooped up with them for 7/8 hours a day for about 185 days of the year it's just human nature.

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  • bigrandker

    hahahahahahahahahahahaha

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