In love with my best friend, iin?

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So, many people say the worst thing to do is to fall in love with your best friend. TO LATE its already happened.I dont know how it happened we used to hate each other's guts. Would talk bad about each other every chance we got. But then one day we decided to sit down and talk. Its been 3 years and our friendship has never been closer. Over these 3 years we have done alot of stupid things, silly fights, sex, got in trouble a lot..and just had a good time. There are so many memories i dont think i could forget with him. I have just fallen deeply in love with him. He is the first person i think of when i wake up and the last person i think of before i go to bed. I can never go a day without mentioning his name. And every time i see him an imediate smile appears on my face. When i'm in a bad mood he knows how to cheer me up. And the worst part of it all no matter how much we fight, i always forgive him as soon as i look him in the eyes. I got it bad. He's my life and i would do anything for him.He just has no idea what i would give to be his. Is it normal?

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  • flutterhigh
    12 years ago

    Who ever said that's the worst thing to do? How could you ever really love someone who ISN'T your best friend?

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    • Hmmaybe
      12 years ago

      You're getting slightly confused by the use of one word in English (love) to cover 4 different concepts (which are represented by different words in Ancient Greek). There is eros - sexual love, philos - friendship/friendly love, storge - family love, agape - compassion. One thing that is not a good idea is to develope eros for a friend who probably only has philos for you and this can result in the loss of that friendship.

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      • flutterhigh
        12 years ago

        I'm familiar with the concept, and I don't disagree, but I was clearly using the colloquial, romantic sense of the term.

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  • dude_Jones
    11 years ago

    Please don't have sex to "feel" something. You are important even if you don't have a boyfriend. "Feel" something first, then get romantically involved slowly.

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  • Faceless
    12 years ago

    Its probably normal but, I give farm animals the finger when I pass them on the highway so what the hell do I know.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Tell him how you feel, if he doesn't feel the same then it shouldn't ruin the friendship over something like that I mean he can't help being so awesome, right?

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    • Becky18
      12 years ago

      We both feel the same way about each other just can't let it go anywhere he says, we are bestfriends for a reason...

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