In love with cousin

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In love with cousin . Recently my family and I were united with 2 cousins whom were adopted when they were very little. We had never met been 40 years. We began talking and sending pics and such. Well me and one of them instantly hit it off so much we fell for each other. We thought was just a fluke of talking and the excitement, it's not that we found out once meeting face to face, we have fallen for each other. Our family suspects maybe something cause the way we joke and how much we enjoy each others company . We tell them don't worry it's nothing but sadly that's a lie. We dont want to upset anyone in our new family ordeal but we don't see each other as cousins since we never knew each other that way we met as friends and fell in love. Our moms are dead set against even the thought, . We are 40 years old it's not like we are minors . We know what we desire. How long do we keep it hidden? You don't get to choose who you fall in love with, the family has gone so far as to so what ever they can to keep is apart on anything.

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  • -WhySoSerious-
    12 years ago

    There are so many cultures that don't see a big deal in marrying the first cousin, but it is well known that many genetic diseases will present in the kids.

    However, you said that your cousin was adopted. What is the problem???

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  • piman
    12 years ago

    Ivsee no evil if you cos is adopted. They aren't blood family so I dint see anything wrong.

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  • Loca1519
    6 years ago

    I feel in love with my cousin. We both feel in love with each other we have been talking and text for 3 months know it happened over summer. In Peru is where he lives and I live in Miami. We really love each other and we want to be together but our families would kill us if they find out. I love him and I don't want to leave him. I don't what to do

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  • MrsBailey9
    12 years ago

    You are both obviously adults, and not blood related so go for it! A little family drama never hurt anyone! It's not as if you are blood relatives and are planning on having children... Tell them it's none of their business and the two of you are in love and they just need to deal with it!

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  • 71bzdula
    12 years ago

    Ok family is becoming lunatics. See he moved here and now resides at his moms ( my aunt) house. We have shared nothing to indicate our feelings for one another . He comes to my house ( 2 streets over ) at night to simply watch a movie and joke and laugh. And each morning back at his moms she gives him the 3rd degree for hours on end about coming to my house. We don't know what to do. We are so happy when together yet my heart aches that he hears so much negative from her.( I've never done anything wrong to my aunt ) I keep my mouth closed and say nothing cause I won't fall into her behavior. We are grown adults. I understand he is her son whom ahe lost 40 years ago and their relationship that they want and need, but him and I also know what " we" want and need together as well.

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  • hasty
    12 years ago

    It's normal to feel attracted to someone you didn't grow up with, related or not. It's just a really big taboo is all.

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    • 71bzdula
      12 years ago

      Thank you! That's exactly how we feel. This wasn't planned it just happened.

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  • 71bzdula
    12 years ago

    Sadly we are related. Our moms are sisters. He was taken from my aunt when he was little and then put up for adoption. There was never any contact for his entire life (40 years ) until we all found each other on facebook. We know what they say we are cousins but to us we are just 2 ppl. It's not like we had a childhood together. 2 ppl who found each other and fell for each other. It wasn't planned. And no off spring would ever have to be an issue cause I am no longer able to.

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    • Cheesyremark
      10 years ago

      I would say don't do it for the baby's sake but now I'll say just go for it.

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  • pmon
    12 years ago

    Aww that's cute

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  • Tisgranum
    12 years ago

    The genetic thing might have posed a problem, but since you're not related.

    I would have said same as posts above but who knows in what order this will be in tomorrow?

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  • Tehboss
    12 years ago

    there's no problem just fuck away =D none should intervene in the matter you are not 2 kids you should fucking tell them to teh face and be done with it
    =D

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