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I m in love with a man 30 years older than me.
I live in sarajevo,he lives in italy and he s married.
everyone s saying that i m not normal but i just love him so much and want to be with him forever.
Maybe it s not normal but i really dont care.
Love is love, but you should be respectful of the fact that he is married.
The age isn't a problem but he is married. How can you be with him. Also can you be sure he does not just want to use you and move on? Is it really love or infatuation, or worse obsession.
If he's married...leave it alone. That should be enough. If he says he's happy or not..that should be your clue. Married men or women are OFF LIMITS!
in love? you mean tricked? your story is not unique...men are really good at being two faced. so, he showed you a nice persona, made you think that he was this wonderful guy - sweet caring charming, creative, funny, intelligent - and I imagine that maybe his marrige is no longer close, is that right? his wife is sometimes distant, they dont have sex like they used to, they dont talk like they used to, etc etc blah blah...and now you are the sweet young woman who has waltzed into his life like a ray of sunshine, makes him laugh, who he feels he can really talk to, and really understands him... don't buy it, its all an act. He has seduced you. He is playing both you and his wife for fools. And for god's sake, please do not do anything impulsive! Your first priorities are yourself, and his wife. This lying cheating manipulative sack of shit, and his needs, come last, do you understand me?? YOU AND YOUR FELLOW FEMALE COME FIRST. That is the way you must think and what you are going to do will follow from that.
wtf is wrong with you?!go find some guy that is closer to your age...jeez...
No. Nonono. and not because of the age difference. You owe it to yourself not to get involved with married people.
i dated a guy 35years older then me but fell inlove with my friend so i broke up with him and now i got a fiance.... my fiance is 7years older then me.. married men r off limits! get aeay while u can find someone better!
If he is married, then his wife is probably in love with him too. She probably feels the way you do about him, and is probably worried someone would like her husband and take him away.
Leave the man alone. If he's married, then that's that. When a man leaves a woman for another, that just proves a point. My brother left his first wife for another lady, and he's done the same things almost 4 times now. Once a guy leaves a wife for another woman, then you will forever have to worry about the "other woman" taking him away from you.
Especially if he's 30 years older than you, it isn't worth it. Stop now before its too late.
take your eyes off him before its too late, while opportunities pass you, youll never have him because hes married, and for christ sake hes 30 years older than you!!! thats the kinda stuff that movies make fun of