In considered a bad mom cuz i go out twice a month
I go out twice a month cut loose with my four best friends and their husbands. We go to a concert or movie drink a bit and some times go bowling or iceskating.I don't come back until early in the am.it's therapy for me.He thinks I am cheating. I am not. The rest of the time I am supermom, I think I deserve to have me time.I wish it were us time, but he won't come.The whole time I am out he texts me over and over saying how could you leave me!The neigbours are putting ideas in his head that aren't true.For the longest time I didn't go anywhere at all.It was driving me nuts. I was drinking a bottle of wine alone in the hottub once a week when our son went to the in laws.But my husband also gets mad when I do that.He said since we are parents that FUN and happiness are not on the menu anymore. I disagree. I feel I am a better mom when I am rested after letting my freak flag fly a little BIT.