Im trying to forget a gay guy who i consider as the love of my life

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I'm 24 years old and I'm staying away from a gay guy who i love so much. We were really good friends, office mates, and we used to lived in the same apartment with some other friends. I fall in love, He gave me falls hope, he said, that I should hold on, cause if He is already ready to come back and love girls again, He would not look for others cause He loves me. Everyday was painful and I turned out to be miserable, until I decided to move out and forget him. And its not easy. Nothing is easy. What should I do???

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  • Asraf1235
    6 years ago

    I want to forget to he is 18 and I am 25..helpless still loving

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  • kayla8
    11 years ago

    you cant help who you fall in love with, im going through a similar situation at the moment, i dont know what to do, sounds like your going ok, i dont think i can leave the guy i love though, even if he is gay, ill just have to settle for being best friends, hes too much of a good person and hes had a really hard life, im pretty much the person he trusts most in the world and he loves me but not in a sexual way so ill just have to live with being friends and hope the romantic feelings go away, maybe when i find another guy they will and itll be easier to be friends... i think your totally normal, maybe distance yourself until your ready to be friends? thats what i would like to be able to do but its hard for me as my gay friend would be devastated if i left, makes it hard :/

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  • randomjelly
    13 years ago

    Soooo you knew he was gay and yet you still allowed these feelings to grow?

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    • amylee232332
      13 years ago

      yeah.. at the very beginning i knew that he is gay and yes i allowed it... i'm the one to be blamed for this feeling, that is why im away from him.. cause i'm sick.. so sick.. i didn't even know that it will grew like that... sorry me.. but i guess im a bit okay now.. i guess...

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