Im tired of this..

So lets get to the point.I noticed that a lot of people like to compare me to other{especially women}.They will always say thing like :oh i know a guy bigger or smarter or more handsome..Im seriously tired of this!!!The funny thing is that im not a person who likes to brag about how good he is but this is seriously getting out of hand.Funny thing the same thing happens to one of my friends...Next time a **** says that to my face i will reply by saying the same thing to him/her.Its disgusting how people like to compare you to others and lower your self esteem!Now most of you will say that i overreact but this is constantly happening and im like wtf did i ever said a bad thing about them?

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  • flailyhailey

    People are always going to be judgmental. It's not your problem. What you can do, is avoid toxic people, and erase already toxic people from your life. There is no need to speak with negative people who make you feel bad about yourself.

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  • Koda

    Honestly, they're probably insecure and jealous of you. They feel threatened by qualities they perceive in you and feel the need to "bring you down a notch." It's petty and pathetic, but normal human behaviour. If they didn't "level the playing field" so to speak, they'd feel insecure and uncomfortable around you thinking that you might view yourself as superior unless they make it obvious they don't see you that way.

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  • Ellenna

    Yeah, just stay away from fuckwits like this, who needs em? No-one can lower your self-esteem unless you let them and I reckon people who do this probably have low self-esteem in relation to you and are just trying to bring you down to their level or lower - lose em!

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  • WhiteStallion

    I also hate being compared to others. I have myself to do that already and now you too...?! I usually just brush off the people who do this and tell them they're being silly because I have my individual challenges and playing in my game of life, I'm doing great.
    Don't give a shit, there'll always be haters but only you know what you go through every day which makes you unique.

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