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i am a boy, and i have recently realised i am strongly attracted to a black boy that is homphobic, i dont know what to do and a bunch of my girlfriends have told me he is 9 inches and i am just panicking because i am attracted to him but, im afraid he will beat me up if i try to say anything.
| just step away from him | 8 | |
| find another man | 16 | |
| try and flirt | 6 | |
| be friendzoned | 2 | |
| just forget him then | 14 |
Why do gay dudes do this? Go for another gay dude. I've had several gay dudes try to come onto me and it pisses me off.
If you know its dangerous to try, why bother? Forget about him and find someone else.
Do not even think about it. NOTHING good would come of it if he knew you wanted him.
Black males are the most homophobic people out there. That is unless any one of them is gay.
I'm a black dude and can confirm this ironically many who make a big deal out of homosexuals tend to be the biggest homos around.
Same to a lot of Hispanics.
Might I ask then, why is it that black women are typically the most accepting of gays and transgender?
It is like the likelihood to be accepting, from mot to least -
black women - love us and not shy about associating with us.
white women - The ones that don't accept just laugh.
white men - Unaccepting ones are usually the "MAGA" crowd. Accepting ones are often in the closet.
black men - Unaccepting ones do not acknowledge LGBT exists, while the gay blacks are usually REALLY flamboyant.
Just my experience. As far as hispanics, it seems to be a mixed bag. The ones who "act white" tend to accept anyone. The "Cholo S.A. vato" types tend to be worse than anyone else when they don't accept someone. At least black men mostly won't bother us.
I don't know about black women being accepting I mean I don't doubt it and they can be friendly but they aren't all that ok with gays.(on a social/cultural level)
Most blacks tend to be socially conservative ironically.
In my family which is a mix of blacks and Hispanics I've seen a mix of both liking being ok with to not caring or out right hating gay people.
As for the gay black dudes being very flamboyant that was something I never really understood.
And your completely correct about the cholo types some of my cousins are complete assholes more so then my black ghetto cousins.
Na na, It's all good bud. Black dudes will respect it. Just walk up say you want him and slap his ass.
He acts homophobic because he's scared to admit he's gay. Go for it. You won't regret a thing.
It's the 9 inch licorice stick that's attracting you. You can find others. Leave the one's with personality disorders alone.