Im so worried about my life

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Is it normal I worry so much? Ever since ive been little ive worried for nothing, I am a lot better now, but I am seriously worried about my life and most of all meeting someone. I have a full time busy job so I am tired a lot, but im making excuses, I don't really like to go out every night to night clubs, I don't have many good if any good friends only online ones. I go to the local gym and a local class and will keep myself busy that way ( while hoping to find someone ) im trying to push myself to try new things as well, but any friends I do make they loose interest in me.. or become not bothered, probably because they have their own friends. But im just happy doing what im doing and sitting in most nights.. is it normal? my mum says I should be burning the candle at both ends at my age but im always knackered.. and I don't enjoy partying :( im letting my parents down and I don't know what to do.

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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago

    If I can be a bit blunt here, your parents have their own lives to live. You should never feel 'im letting my parents down'. If what you are doing makes you happy, then that should be your concern in life.
    You don't sound like a drug addict or someone into self destructive behavior, so I'd relax a bit. If anybody questions your life choices, I believe you can say without guilt or remorse, "I'm happy doing it this way, thank you though."

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  • reminiscent
    9 years ago

    You dont need to burn the candle at both ends...
    just try to be satisfied with yourself and worry less about other opinions ♡

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  • GiveMeAFuckingNameAlready!
    9 years ago

    Don't worry about it. I let my parents down every morning I wake up.

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  • TrustMeImLying
    9 years ago

    What's with the constant party label? Sounds like an excuse to be honest. Because there are tons of people who don't go clubbing but still have their fun by hiking, kayaking, bowling, rock climbing, hanging out at the beach, fencing, or frequenting sports bars -- the list is endless. There are even "social cafes" (I don't know what's the proper name for those places) where it's all board games, clue games, card games and a great place to be a couch potato and meet people cause folks are very friendly and welcoming. I'm sure there's something like that in all cities.

    As for your problem of being knackered, I got nothing for you there. But it could easily be a result of your constant worrying. I know my own energy levels get low when I'm preoccupied with something for days.

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  • Zangyr
    9 years ago

    Yeah I understand.

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