Im so upset i cant eat is that bad

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Well the other day the girl i liked, and have for a long time, asked me out. without thinking twice i said yes. come to find out on saturday she texts me and tells me we cant date because her mom dosent want her to date girls. After the conversation we had, i cried for a while. we came to the fact that we can be friends but thats it. is it normal that i am so upset over this that i cant eat. when i try to eat i just get sick. i this normal.

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  • hotchickie81
    14 years ago

    Normal. I was like that for a while this summer, when I was upset over something. I could not eat. Eventually things got better, and I got over it, and voila... I'm eating again. Hopefully you'll soon be able to eat too :)

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  • 1985
    13 years ago

    It happened to me after break up. For about 2 weeks all I could eat was sunflowers. Strange, a? But I came back to normal after I accpeted the situation.

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  • cookiegirl
    14 years ago

    you must really like this girl, yeah its normal... also to throw up if you get really angry, it may seem hard to find someone you like... who likes you back and whose not surrounded by prejudice, youll get there, maybe not with her but youll get there

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  • Jen118584
    14 years ago

    It's normal to become nauseous and upset after breaking up with someone or after something traumatic has happened or if you're really anxious. I can completely understand why you're upset but since you never really developed a relationship with this person (correct?) I don't think it's quite justified to be upset to the extent that you are. You are obviously relatively young and have your whole life ahead of you, so there will be others. For now, just be friends with this girl. Maybe her mom will come to accept her more and eventually come to terms with the fact that she wants to date girls.

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  • WAFFLESQUID
    14 years ago

    No, it's not normal. It's an unhealthy eating disorder. I think you should talk to the girl about this, and explain the effect it has on you. Her mother probably is a homophobic or something like that and thinks it's wrong to be gay. Sorry I can't give much advice, but it would be best to talk about it to someone.

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