Im so in love with him but i think its getting unhealthy what do i do

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ok so i fell in love with this guy about two yrs ago. i moved and we are trying to make it work. I only get to see him once a a mounth and for only about three days when he comes and visits me. he cant do it as often because he has work and school. i already graduated and have a lot of free time. i miss him so much and hes all i think about, i text him as much as i can but he cant usaly text back because hes always busy. At night i usaly only get to talk to him for about a half an hour. im becomeing so upsessed with him and so depressed because i miss him so much and i dont get to comunicate with him as often as i would like. this is suposed to be going on till this summer then were going to move in together. but after the summer hes going to collage far way and i cant aford to go with him. im trying all i can to find a way to aford being with him when he gose, i dont want to have to go through this all over again, and i know if he gose to collage without me we will comunicate even less. i feel so lost and helpless. I have no one to talk to about this and he tells me to try and occupy myself to keep him off my mind but ive tried every thing and nothing seems to work. Someone pleas talk to me on how to deal and handle this situation. It feels like its killing me inside !!

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  • happyB
    13 years ago

    Not normal. And you should not even be considering moving in with a guy that you only see once a month and barely talk to. Something is very wrong with that; at the very least he does not have time for you, but most likely he does not share your feelings or he would be making an effort to see you. When my husband and I first met we both were going to school and working full time and we still made time to see each other at least 4-5 times per week. We are still together 11 years later because we both make it work.
    Yours is a one-sided relationship, and those do not work out well. Find someone who actually cares about you.

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    • white_wolf
      13 years ago

      we have bin together fr a yr and a half befor i moved weve only bin doing this for about 4 mounths. he dosent have the tme to see me any more tan he dose he has work school and he already stressed t te max. i know he loves me as much as i do him but i just want to know how to cope with him being so stressed out. He putes in a much effort as possible right now.

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  • yekta-topal
    12 years ago

    look try like using sex toys like vibratores in your viginna so it could feel like your having sex with him.and this is normal.i can't really decide whether you guys r gonna be together 4 ever or gonna break up but, one thing i know is that u should start communicating with your vigina like getting a dildo, and sticking it up there so it can feel like your togher still. andd one tip before you use the dildo, u should heat it up so it feels just like him!!!! =D thanks for reading!!! btw a dildo is a sex toy witch is a cock that you stick up your anus or your vigina if you dont have a boy freind!!

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  • NotSoLaky
    12 years ago

    You suck at grammar and spelling. Also, you shouldn't fall for him and move just for him. You're young and probably going to break up

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  • BoredGuy
    13 years ago

    at above , bullshit.
    you got bad luck, you will break up in a year or less. sorry

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  • *remy*
    13 years ago

    I think so too, an when u say he told u to do somethinking to keep him off ur mind, that means that ur not in his that much!!!!

    Hello open your mind too what he say just because his so far away!!

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  • 8Serene8
    13 years ago

    I agree with above post. If this guy really wanted to be with you he would have already found a way to do it. Especially after 2 years.

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