Im scared a white guy will never look my way

im an african girl and wanna end up in a successful interracial relationship but im scared that a white (or any other non african) will never approach me. i freak at the thought of talking to guys i never know what to say
im not racist but i always think no foreign man will like me sometimes i even pray for him:) teehee
please advice me thanks y'all

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  • ProseAthlete

    Every woman thinks she doesn't know what to say when talking to guys, and every guy thinks he doesn't know what to say when talking to girls. Just say whatever's on your mind, and it'll usually be the right thing. :)

    Men love exotic women, and we're all exotic somewhere. I'm white, short and pale. When I went to Sweden, where everyone was tall, blonde and tan, I looked unusual and got hit on all the time by these immense Viking-looking guys. (It was awesome!) Trust me; if you strike up a conversation, guys will be charmed.

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  • GoraIntoDesiGals

    I would probably look your way.

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    • prointerracial#7

      aaww thank you

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  • zombe

    im african alittel bit but i would look your way

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    • prointerracial#7

      :-) :-D thanks

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  • prointerracial#7

    i like my own race buh jus like u i prefer other race

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  • BLAh81

    I'm a white guy and I think certain black women are hot as hell.

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  • sheila88

    im filipina as what they call asian girl..im small too with brown skin like u i like white guys too..i dont know why..evrytime i saw a white guy i feel im inlove..or im inspired..i dont like filipino like me..))but dont worry someday u will find it..

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  • GuessWho

    Gross.

    DON'T MIX!
    People wouldn't be different if they were intended to mix.
    It also causes many social and cultural issues for the children.

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  • peterrabbyt2

    I am a white man and a handsome one. And I like you. So there.

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  • Skitzo1

    You should make the first move perhaps? Dont come on slutty and gagging for it though.

    They "should" approach you.

    I cant say anything though, i've only ever been attracted to a few black women, they just dont seem to "float my boat"
    Personal preference though, maybe after i've banged a latina, i might be ready to take the step.

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  • RoseIsabella

    Take up hobbies that affluent, educated white men enjoy like golf. Also since you mentioned that you are African I wanna ask you if you're Catholic because if you're living in the US the majority of Roman Catholics are White or Hispanic. There's nothing wrong with preferring white men because there are white women who prefer black men. Go for it Girl! Follow your heart!

    I'm a natural brunette, I dye my hair red and I prefer blue eyed, blond haired men.

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  • Lune

    I'm sure that you are attractive and ambitious but try not to focus so much on the colour of someone's skin? You might miss out on meeting someone great.

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    • prointerracial#7

      yeah yo right. i don wanna miss out thanx

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  • OsamaBinMarijuladen

    Why dont you like any brothas :(

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    • prointerracial#7

      what do ya mean??????

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      • lufa

        he's asking why don't you like black guys.

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  • anti-hero

    Go to places where whiteys congregate.

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    • ProseAthlete

      But what if she doesn't like NASCAR or country music?

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      • anti-hero

        That's racist. But even worse it is a hacky joke.

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        • EdgeFencer

          I think it's more stereotype :-P

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  • lufa

    I've been attracted to mixed black/white girls but not full on black girls-though some in the media are hot, but that's like 1 in a million.

    I'm actually the wrong guy to comment on this since I'm not into the black race-but I'm sure there are white guys and other races into black girls, you just have to work a little harder to find them.

    My background is East Indian, I primarily date white girls and I really like Asian and middle-eastern girls (non-muslim preferably)-though it's hard to find a hot one.

    I'm not into girls from my own race-believe me some of them can be extremely attractive and I've had my chance with them, but they feel like sisters, so I date outside my race.

    So in a sense I face similar challenges as you since I'm not the race most girls typically go for. But then I'm not a typical Indian guy-so I've been able to date the kind of girls most white guys wish they had. :D

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