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Me and my boyfriend been together for 4 yrs but i know im obsessed with him and im going crazy, 3 days ago we got in a arguement and he didnt call me so i was blowing up his phone even his work phone, i was crying literally begging him back, i kept resending text messages and would cry myself to sleep. Not to sound stuck up but everyonr says im way to pretty for him but hes perfect for me, i was never like this, i feel like hed cheating on me all the time i even accuse him and i know hes tired of our relationship because he tells me. I let him treat me however its bad. I hate when he wants to hang up, we never talk on the phone anymore cuz he never wants to and he hardly textes me and i get sad/angry and accuse him of things. I cry to him all the time and when we argue im usually the one to kiss ass cuz i start paniking he might go out and meet someone better, this is killing me driving me crazy, we hang out alot but when he doesnt wanna see me i start to cry, idk whats wrong with me but i wanna get ovrr these feelings im scared to loose him. Plesse help, the worst part about it is we got 2 kids together and im 20 & hes 23 . Im going nuts please give me advice)

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  • Hmmaybe
    12 years ago

    You need to try to make it up, if only for the kids' sake, don't let them grow up with a split family. Crying to him and panicking isn't goign to help. Talk to him rationally and calmy, explaining the problems you have and listening to the ones he has. See if you can get back on track with the relationship and continue as a happy family.

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  • chicken471bologna
    12 years ago

    Why can't I ever meet girls like you?

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    • drtywiteboy
      12 years ago

      ..........i also love the crazy ones.

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    • Suahgnibbec
      8 years ago

      Same hrre its not like i dont try but i dont find anybody fitting i would lobe to have a gf like u

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    He thinks you're clingy and suffocating him coz of the kids :o( and maybe this is why you want him - coz you don't want to be left to bring them up on your own. Are you sure you haven't got post-natal depression? I'd go and see a doctor.

    Just consider this for one moment....

    How much fun are you to be around?
    Why would he want to be with you?

    Stop crying and start laughing girl ;o)

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  • sunny_wantsome
    12 years ago

    Simple. Just watch some movie or google or think of a way to apologize and apologize to him show him your love if you love him. Problem solved. Males have heart too that melts. Have you tried crying in front of him rather giving a bath to the pillow. Knowing that guys can't deal with a crying girl.

    "Every woman is wrong until she cries, and then she is right - instantly."

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  • chatter289
    12 years ago

    i think this relatiobship seems to have run its course. I hate saying that because i would hate someone saying that about my relatioship. But this is not fair on you or him. I would say take a breather.... give each other some space and time. It could just be a little glitch and the way your behaving, which is normal sometimes for women i think, he wont even bother thinking that the relationship is worth the try because you seem like a pest to him with all the obsssion. Honestly.. give it a while. Take up activities keep yourself busy, make a change to improve your self esteem. Confidence is the key.. see, it drives you crazy when he does not text you back... well drive him crazy by not texting him then he will think,, hang on why is she not texting me. BE MEAN, KEEP THEM KEEN.. IT BLOODY WELL WORKS.

    You are both so vert young still, he is only 23 and well, he is at that stage where he wants 'freedom'. Since you have kids it seems like it has kinda limited both of your freedoms. You def both need time off,... trust me, it will help... it will be so very hard and it has, but you have to show him that you are independent and not relying on him for everything. Show your strong character and your confidence, im sure thats what he loved most about you. No one wants a leach around all the time, trust me i have learned that myself.

    good luck xx

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    • Fuckyouall88
      9 years ago

      Stupid that will just make it fucking worse cuz then he will get mad.

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  • thecoldhardtruth
    12 years ago

    You definitely need to grow some self-esteem. Anyone treating you that way is NOT worth your time.

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    • Fuckyouall88
      9 years ago

      Stfu stupid stop judging and go get some self-esteem yourself.

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  • snowtail802
    11 years ago

    ohh you love casue yo a ♀ and hes a ♂

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  • Abnormallynormal
    12 years ago

    Think like a 20 year old not a child! Its ok to be grown

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  • drtywiteboy
    12 years ago

    no its not normal love. But it sounds as though your clinging has made him uncomfortable, and that he is ready to move on. If you love him you need to let him go.

    -tacky and unprofessional side note- and call me some time. i LOVE crazy chicks.

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    • Fuckyouall88
      9 years ago

      Stfu he still loves her hes just uncomfortable when she clings to much. Go get ur own fucking sick entertainment

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  • Aleks85
    12 years ago

    Drama queeeeen...

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