Im not the same anymore after i broke up almost a year ago

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hi i really need to know if this is normal !

So almost 1 year ago i broke up with my girlfriend after a hard year relashionship. It whas not the best relashionship far from good, We had fights like everyday . we stayed together for 1 year . it whas a hard fight to stay together. i really did my best to make it work everyday, i whas scared that we where gonne break up Everyday, whas a fight. than after a year we did broke up, and i whas completely smashed. after that im verry differend there is no energy in me it feels wierd. normally im a very happy guy playing pop punk guitar like blink 182 you know the happy music. know im not into that anymore.(im still a big fan) always listening to dark songs like wtf i cant help it :s i whas always outside with my best friend and his wife always the happy boy you now . now he speaks to me on facebook i dont even want to answer . he thinks that im angry because i dont say someting but im not i just dont have the power to go away with him :( im always inside now . normaly i had alot off friends in my local bar some streets further i havent been there for 5 months almost whats wrong with me ?

same searching for a girlfriend im not interested anymore sometimes i am and than its complety gone like wtf ?

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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago

    I'm a bit confused. You say it was a terrible relationship, but instead of being relieved that you are free of the misery, you are miserable? Why?
    Get a grip, dude. You are now free to find a good, healthy, loving relationship, yippee. We all feel a sense of failure when a relationship doesn't succeed, but you even admitted that that one wasn't any good. Stop looking in the mirror and seeing a loser, but see the brilliant guy who didn't make the mistake of marrying that bitch and ruining his life.
    Go forth young man and find another, better girl friend. You will heal and all will be well.

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  • flyingnostalgia
    9 years ago

    good to hear that you have changed...some people never change.

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  • tomdelonge1
    9 years ago

    yeah its hard to let everything go you sometimes you feel alone and you dont want to start all over again from zero maybe i have to wait a bit longer and give myself a bit more time ! thx all for the comments through !

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  • Freedom_
    9 years ago

    I'm going through some similar motions after leaving my baby's daddy. If you're going through a lot of changes as a result and have to readjust to many things, then you're probably overwhelmed. I, too, see the good in my breakup but I can't shake this feeling of depression because I basically have to redo the past 3 years of my life.

    However, it seems like you still miss her and I honestly don't know how to console you there.

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    You obviously have more problems than a breakup over a bad relationship.
    Why would you even desire to be in a relationship like that? It's better to be alone than with somebody you don't get along with.
    Clearly something is wrong with your logic and reasoning. Once you realize that you should try to overcome your problem.

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