Im married and bi

plz ppl help out do u thnk im crazy or what? Ive bn married 4 two years 2 a loving guy,i recently developed feelings for girls. I dated this girl its been six months now and she makes me happy more than my husband she is so damn good in bed im nw scared that my feelings for her are growing stronger and stronger. Should I leave my hubby and be with her she makes me happy in all ways and she is also crazy abt me.how do I tell my hubby this?

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Comments ( 39 )
  • bloxham772

    nothing bad about being married and bi but the fct that your cheating is horrible!

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  • Sorry but you do not love your husband if you are cheating on him. Whether it's with a girl or not. You need to fess up about the affair because he at least deserves that.

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  • mcmcmc

    think simple, the problem lies not on the gender, no matter it's a her or him the problem is basically an affair. so the question here is do u love him anymore?

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  • BoredGuy

    so... you are cheating on him. do him a favor, file for a divorce.

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  • deepthought33

    Seven months in and it is probably too late now. Theres a good chance he would have been excited about your newfound attraction to woman (I know my husband was) but now he is bound to be too hurt and angry that you took it to the level of "affair" without communicating your curiosities first.

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    • IrishPotato

      Indeed, it might've been a threesome at the start.
      But now it's just too late.

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  • Hotmama3454

    Well cheating is sick but you need to make a choice are you in love with her or what she can do for you.

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  • Gidget

    you need to stop cheating and you obviously have some major problems going on in ur life if ur even considering leaving ur husband for a woman thats just wrong

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  • NiceGuyJer

    She'll be way less fun when she's not a secret

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  • ouchez

    Break up with your husband. If you really loved him you couldn't do this to him. Obviously you have ignored a problem that had been going on before the affair and now there is mo turning back.

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  • BlackShadow123

    yea cheating on him makes you a bitch, but if thats the case, leave him. if you're going to fall in love with another girl and cheat on him, you need to leave him so that he can find somebody better than you.

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  • dietx

    Yet another person falling for the "he/she's so good in bed" affair bullshit. If that's truly
    Your thing for this, I truly pity the man your with.

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  • Well u don't deserve either.
    Ur having an affair, slut

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  • runningwithscissors

    Your a whore your probably some fat bitch with low self esteem.just cause she says whst you want to hear just think your husband at one time apparently said something that you loved but its to late for tha he needs to leave your fat lazy ass

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  • yupihaveproblems

    Affairs are normal. Being bi is normal. Marriage is normal. But you don't deserve either yous husband or your lady friend--you're a cheater, and no one likes one of those.

    I highly doubt this story is true anyway, your spelling is atrocious. Who on Earth would want to marry a woman as illiterate as you?

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  • k1d

    Wow! Tough situation and sad to hear. Ask your husband can yyall work something out between the 3 of you.

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  • IrishPotato

    There's absolutely nothing wrong with being bisexual, however...

    You're cheating on your partner, and that's horrible.
    He has a right to know, and you should tell him you've been doing this. Have a divorce, and save him the pain from finding out much much later.

    And for the love of all that's pleasureable, don't do this again. Cheating is horrible, and you're a horrible person for doing it. However, people can change.

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  • Doctorknowsbest

    Loving another while married is okay. Being adored by another woman is okay. Being bisexual is normal and falling in love while married to another is normal. Marriage is an institution based on a lifelong commitment to each other. People marry for reasons that are only known to themselves. How you feel in the marriage is also very important. But it is not just about you is it? Now you have 2 people that you have given your love to. Why does it have to be so complicated right? So many feelings and 3 people that will be hurt when this is discovered. Yeah it's a real pickle isn't it. Are you ready to come out and be exposed? or are you going to give up and be a lesbian. The heart only knows what it wants and if it is a woman that's okay. Staying out of loyalty to your husband because that's what society expects from you is wrong. After about 2 years the honeymoon is over and reality set's in and it is not always what we want it to be. so will it be better with your female lover? or are you a person that likes it when it's good for you. Are you normal? Yeah

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  • thebuddah

    Hi Tylee you're a racist bitch and I don't like you :) you know, for someone who is gay you should be the last person to make racial comments. Not saying there is anything wrong with gay people but if you wanna be gay then stop judging people according to their race. Why ? Because if you're gonna be openly gay than you will be judged all the time and you're not gonna like it. Racist b!tch

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  • BoredGuy

    so you are cheating?

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  • mimzah

    lol sky my mouth is sealed. Its nt al abt a penis dear.

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  • skyhuh24

    How can she be good in bed with no penis??

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  • 1u5t

    First learn how to spell...

    Secondly; tell your husband, he will accept it & invite her along for the ride!! There's a 99.9 percent chance you can have both of them!!

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  • TalkAndTouch

    One of my former gf was Bi and we made a deal.

    I was HER bf and this other girl was HER gf.
    We hung out together but sex was private.

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  • Xfing

    Invite the girl over and engage in threesome! PROFIT

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  • Homo homo homo homo omo

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  • Tay

    Aw, that's so sad. I'm sorry Capthotrocks!! I'll give you some lovin' ;). Lol

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  • Proudfear

    well if u do dump him for her he will feall more lik shit than if you left him 4 a man, and i dont mean to sound perverted or nothing but most guys have fantacys about thier wife or gf being bi

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  • Well if u want to b a lesbo then I say go for it

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  • Capthotrocks

    I'm a husband and Bi.I know what it's like to be lonely in a relationship and I KNOW my wife would be hurt as hell if she found out but I also want some love and I believe I am entitled to some love as well. I was a good love until I recognised my wife wasn't returning the love which caused me to stop the affection. Now ther is nothing and she doesn't miss it so it was never enjoyed. I will NEVER go to her side of the bed again or at least until she shows me I am needed AND wanted in her life. You also need love so enjoy it where you find it.

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  • lisalyn

    Go where u will be hAppy I went thru the same thing

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  • ruralfrights

    Eventually he needs to know the truth. But, don't jump the gun. What do you want, other than sex and understanding, from your female companion? A lifelong GAY relationship? What does she want?

    Sometimes people wind up with neither partner because of jumping the gun and making uninformed decisions. Oncevyour committed, then there's no more BI to it. You're making a choice to live as a gay woman and are willing to accept the ups and downs of such. Make sure it's mutual, because gay relationships take a lot of courage and often dissolve prematurely. So much more that I could go on forever. Just triple check all aspects.

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    • LadyMystique

      I agree with Ruralfrights and also..
      You should leave your husband and you should let him know what you've been doing 'on the side'. It's terrible that you have been cheating on him and its time to do the right thing.
      If you're happy with someone else, then why should he be miserable with you?

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  • JuliusE

    I don't get the whole bi thing at all, I really don't. Be careful tho and make sure the other person is really worth it. It's easy to forget all the little things that make you happy about your husband/wife. Remeber the 80/20 rule. Don't ever leave the 80 (husband/wife) for the 20 (affair) unless your SURE it is not the case. (80% of what you want in a relationship vs 20%) in the end do what you feel is right though. Just be careful

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  • Stay with the man! You'll have better sex

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  • mimzah

    how do I send a reply or how do I chat 2 other ppl who makes comments plz help!

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  • Ameenoo

    ewwww BI IS WRONG ALWAYS!
    psycho...

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    • IrishPotato

      Go die you homophobic barbarian.

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      • DiamondGirl

        Your gay you'll be shot by elves.

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