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So.
Sexual attraction.
U... Just see someone, u think they are attractive ... And just makes ur body hot and u wanna have sex with them...
Like, it's that real?
Is it just u see someone and u wanna fuck em.
Like fr.
Pls tell me bc i don't get it.
| Yes, it's like that | 9 | |
| No, it isn't (elaborate pls i need answers) | 4 |
If a person isn't asexual, it is indeed like that, although the intensity of the feeling isn't the same for everyone, and it will vary depending upon a lot of factors (like blood-alcohol level, the situation, other things going on in your life and so on).
If you haven't ever felt that - and assuming you're at least as old as the minimum age for membership of this site - then maybe your sensitivity to erotic feelings is non-existent or turned down, or you've simply never encountered someone who pushes the mysterious buttons that trigger the feelings.
I am on my 20s i just never really realised till now that... Like i do have libido sometimes but it's bc hormones or whatever i have never got h0rny bc of someone???? So idk.
Like even my libido is low but it does exist, never risen by a person tho.
So i just thought i might be ace... To some extent at least, idk
As long as you're not unhappy with however you happen to be, it's fine.
Maybe you've heard at some point that sexual orientation isn't an either-or thing; it's better viewed as a spectrum where people fall somewhere on a line between completely gay and completely straight. Sexual desire is a spectrum too, with some people being utterly indifferent about sex, and others being constantly, intrusively horny.
Be open to new experiences, and who knows? Maybe someday someone will come along and you'll get smacked right upside the head in the nicest possible way.
I'm demi sexual so I usually need an emotional connection before I have sexual urges.
With having said that, I do have my own type and if I see someone thats 🔥...I would easily and happily give them a passionate hot kiss but fir a relationship and to feel comfortable having sex I would require time to get to know each other with said person