Im jealous of bisexual people.

being bi is great hehe

The way you said that is so beautiful.

yes this is normal. Think about it....the amount of "fish in the sea" is doubled (not exactly, but is increased) if you're bisexual. How lucky they are.

You absolutely are capable of loving someone for their mind. You do it all the time, in fact, its just the first thing that pops into your head is definitely 'Oh, we're best friends' and not anything sexual. Lets say you have a childhood friend, and he's been your best friend forever, you may love him and not realize it. Sexuality isn't a big role in what you're trying to accomplish. Everyone can love every sex.

And get this. You love your parents, and they're related to you. Isn't that just strange? Of course not. You just have to think of it all differently!

Very interesting question!

Part One

Both men and women have private sexual desires.
These desires cover the entire range of sexual activity.

Your family, friends, religion and the society you live in, dictate what you can and

cannot do, or even try out, for the terrible fear of real or percieved punishment.

The last few years have seen a major change with young men and teens.
In previous years the topic of sex was taboo, so you not only rarely spoke of sex but

knew very little about it either.

If one did have feelings that were unacceptable you usually brushed them off, even tho'

the situation would probably have led to memorable sex.

Now because the young are exposed to every possible sexual situation inbeded in young

minds by sex education at school and frightening warnings about sex predators when ever

you go out and the general fears that are sensationalized by lurid headlines on TV.
Plus the legalizing of homosexuality and the general consensus that being gay is okay.
All this amounts to a constant argument in a youngsters head about how they are

supposed to approach sex - as if they were studying for a career.

Well now that this is the new normal and if a guy makes you horny then have guy sex.

It's of no importance to American society what you do as long as you follow the obvious

rules:
Don't have sex with a minor - period, any kind, even pinching a girls bum when she is

17 years,364 days old and you are 18 plus a day old, can lead to jail -
it's already happened in the USA. A guy pinched a girls bum at her birthday eve party
as he was celebrating his... she didn't like it, called the cops - he did 1 year plus a

civil fine.

Don't have sex with any female who is drunk or drugged, regardless of her age.
Never go home with any really weird guys who wear leather - unless that's your thing

too. You could end up handcuffed, chained and have very large objects stuck up your

bum.

everyone is bi to some degree. straight just means you prefer the opposite sex, and gay means you prefer the same sex. maybe you should try experimenting with someone of the same sex?

it's normal i am bie too.

it's not that sex doesn't matter. we like both. i could have one without the other and be fine, but i'm always gonna be attracted to both.

Well I wouldn't say your gay just for thinking that. Men who say that are just not comfortable with their sexuality and would never speak of any such thought because of their fear of social rejection.

I mean realistically you could be like her. But I think you might be saying that because... well she is a girl. And you find it appealing that she can sleep with men (like normal) and then woman as well (what straight man wouldn't like that)

But what if the tables were turned? If your bi friend happened to be a guy, would you still be jealous?

Well I don't know if it's normal but I have the exact same thing you're talking about, including the I want to be bisexual but the f-ed thing is I don't actually want to be bisexual. I just want to be with a man, have a woman see it and get jealous. Or at least when I talk to a woman who is bisexual I think I would feel less jealous if I could chime in with my own. The one person who said it's a macho bravado thing is WRONG, but the person who said it is an insecurity thing is right. However it also not just insecurity but the feeling that you will always be missing out on a type of sensuality that seems to be worth having. I don't know what to do either. I know this is my problem, and I don't do anything stupid or rash about it, but I am sick of this like burning feeling that I get in my heart ESPECIALLY because I know it is based on stupidity. So, I don't know if you're normal, but I know where you're coming from on every level, but I have no idea what to do about it.

Yeah, I wish I was able to be attracted to girls too, for your reasons, and that I'd have more eye candy ;P

Normal. Experiment.

u sound gay just 4 sayn that ^_^ no offens but maybe u r bi experiment ull be surprised what u learn

I'm not sure if that's normal or not...
But you CAN love somebody for their mind and personality. Just because you only like girls doesn't mean that you only like that they are girls. Bisexuality is just as much about physical attraction as heterosexuality is. Just because you're straight doesn't mean if you feel for someone it isn't as beautiful because you wouldn't like them if they were a guy.

Normal! Choose love NOT gender :)

Why dont you just do it? You choose who to have sex with you realize this right?

maybe u are bisexual I think all people are, ... u should explore a little

I was thinking earlier how it'd be good to be bisexual. So much more choice...

Wow, dude. I want you to be my friend. Nice to finally hear some love toward the bis.

It could be normal- Although, I am not jealous of bisexual people.
I think the jealousy could also stem from men wanting to be involved in a lesbian scenario. Also, the beauty associated with women and the closeness of their gender.

Normal and so sweet <3

Totally agree with you... Not to seem odder, but I think it is all about the Male Bravado thing...

Totaly normal.