Im in love with someone i met on the internet

im 19 and i met a girl 5 years ago on the internet. We talk almost everyday, and just recently (few months back), i realized that i was in love with her.i told her how i feel and she feels the same way about me, but i have never actually met her, just talked on the phone and seen pictures,etc.

am i normal?

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83% Normal
Based on 157 votes (130 yes)
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  • Jake1556

    I think it's perfectly normal, and if you guys are really into eachother you should tottally meet up!

    Hope everything works out for ya.

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  • Galaxy500

    Exactly! I've been in two long-term relationships where I met them over the internet. My most recent moved down to be with me and we were together for almost 5 years! Do it! Go for it! I like the internet because you get to know someone's mind first and communication is key! Do it!

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  • XxEmO_MiKexX

    Yeah we all have internet lovers time from time and there no problem with that but wen it get to a good point ou two should meet and see how the relationship evolves.

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  • TheWeirdo

    It's a fact that at least 90%% of couples met on the internet.

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    • coolio75650932

      i met my wife whem i got a baby sitting job and she was already there(read my post about it)

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  • wunderkind28

    I have a friend that has a similar issue. Unfortunately, he put so much into his long-distance relationship that he's having trouble, now that it's falling apart. I fear that his whole realm will suffer on her account. Can't say anything to him like that, though, on account of we haven't know each other that long. So I'm telling you: Don't do something you'll regret.

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  • That's happened to me, too. It's completely normal, no worries! If this keeps up, you two should meet someday. It could be quite the relationship =)

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  • paaaandora

    I've been through the same thing. I think it's normal but in my situation I realized that I was in love with the IDEA of loving him. I think there's a huge difference in loving someone via interwebs and in person. Try it out in person, see how it goes.

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  • jessicaskins

    you are very normal actually, the other week i made a fake facebook and talked to some of the guys that go to my school, and even though i knew the guys they finally gave me the time of day when there was a different picture there, so this one guy i talked to we really hit it off, and he was like in love with me, so internet things can be misleading, or when they last 5 years it could be true love.

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  • 4w04se

    mm I'm also 19 and fell in love with my net friend after 2 years of talking almost everyday. He had the exact same feelings and we got together.. Mom knew about it. But, unfortunately my father never supported this idea and I figured this out after our relationship grew stronger and was so hard for us to part.. I just stopped talking to him for 2 whole years and felt like my world has fallen apart completely. Just this year I found him on facebook and sent him a message cause I've always been wondering about him.. and now we're talking again like before.. cause we were so good friends.. Though, we can't get through this again.

    I hope you are pretty sure that ur parents are ok with it before you strike up anything serious with her.. cause it's so hard when ur dreams jus fade away

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  • norMall

    normal? ofc it is, when god was creating Internet he said "let there be e-dates and facebook for" amen.

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    • coolio75650932

      god never created internet......chuck norris made the internet so ppl could comment on how awesome chuck norris is... when god created earth he looked down at his creation and said''HOLYCRAP IS THAT CHUCK NORRIS!?'' when god goes to the washroom he tales a holy shit!

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  • we are planning on meeting up sometime soon as soon as i get the money saved up

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  • jessica1068

    i think its normal. but how do you know it is actually her they could be fake pictures that might not even be what she looks like... she could be lying about her age or anything you never know... but if that is really her and you feel you love eachother then theres nothing wrong with that xxxxxx

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  • Defience

    It is unlikely you are truly in love with her because you have never met her face to face, you cant love someone if you have never physically felt or seen them.

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  • Lady.Pemberlie

    I believe its better that both should meet first in-person before the relationship becomes official. As a normal feeling, both of you would have some high expectations that won't be realistic after the meeting.

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  • coolio75650932

    (lol 8====D <——a penis) wow less den half think it r normals WTF THINK INTERNET IS NORMAL OR GTFO AND TAKE YOUR FAIL WITH YOU UR CRAMPIN MY STYLES

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  • jojo.likes.to.party

    It's not that normal- maybe you should try to vid chat with her or something.
    Don't get too gushy mushy- then you won't be able to talk ro be as smooth in real life.

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  • Ramy

    yes its Normal...but I hope this Love based on true principles, i mean its not just his sense of humor, his good looking, his awesome physically look, it must be based on his good personality.... and again its so normal We're living in the twenty-first century we have SO MANY communication tools , its our life tune, this is our time

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  • lee__kyl000

    i met a girl on the internet and all she wanted was to marry me she was only 13 and i'm 18 dont have a job or anything but i think online dating is cool at times because you can get to know people better.

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