Im in love with my best friend........i have no idea what to do.......

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Im in love with my best friend who's a girl. problem is im a girl. I don't like any other girls but im completely in love with her. It all started out when i walked in on her about to commit suicide 5 years ago. We didn't get along then ( i pretty much hated her) but when someones down you don't kick em. So I listened b.c I knew how she felt. Since then we've become each others "people". She came out 2 years ago and nothing changed. Ive stuck with her through depression and bad break ups. virtually everything. Now it's senior year and we're growing apart b.c. she doesn't believe in herself and college. Now ive been really sick lately and in and out of hospitals. and im scared that when we graduate i'll lose her. I don't know what kind of love this is and im really confused. The thing is I don't like other girls. just her. It's really intense. Should I tell her?

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Based on 42 votes (33 yes)
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  • allen910
    14 years ago

    Your probably just having weird fellings because you don't know how shell handle herself alone.... Like suicide

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  • chunkybongo
    14 years ago

    Are you attracted to her sexually? Do you just love her as a person, or do you think she's cute as well? Do you want to kiss her? You don't really sound like you know what you want at all...

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  • Gabriell
    14 years ago

    A little more information please...
    Tell us more about your sexuality.
    Do you like men? Like a 100%%?

    I don't know what you should do.. maybe u should just ask her that u d like to try kissing a girl or something and see how it goes... if u get at least a kiss with her you'd probably know what your feelings are for her(Although I suppose you can tell from touching and hugging her too).

    Since she is not homo I dont think there is much you can do. But since neither are you.. well.. get a boyfriend!

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  • kia106
    14 years ago

    SHE MIGHT THINK UR GAY AND NOT SPEAK TO U

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  • xllewellynx
    14 years ago

    She came out as in queer?

    You don't have to like every girl.. just like you don't have to like every boy.. right?

    You like PEOPLE.

    You could love her or you could be protective over her, there's a difference.. You have to figure it out..

    I believe in saying something, you don't have to if you don't want to.. things will only be awkward if you make it awkward... If she's straight.. maybe saying nothing is better?

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