Im in love with my best frend, but he doesnt like to share his feeling

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(This is going to be kinda long, sorry) My best friend that I met on a website is really attractive to me. I call him Ben. He doesn't like to share his feelings with anyone, and he's not afraid to be honest to someone when needed. He's just sweet and kind at the right moments. He sometime makes me cry, but when I do, he makes me feel better than I was before I started crying. Around him, I'm very immature, but it doesn't seem to bother him. I sometimes annoy him to see how he'll react. He's calm about everything. He's just the most perfect guy for me. But I sometimes seem to come off as an a##h#le. Is the way m feeling towards him not normal?

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  • Fall_leaves
    9 years ago

    How do you come off as an a##h#le?

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  • CountessDouche
    9 years ago

    Well, I'm not sure how old you are but you sound very young. To be honest, in my opinion, good men aren't attracted to this type of drama.

    It sounds like your pushing his buttons on purpose to get the immediate gratification of some type of reassurance. It sounds like your creating unnecessary drama, just to test his boundaries and see if he'll tell you what you need to hear.

    This is very unhealthy behavior, and if this guy has any sense, and it sounds like he does, he won't put up with it for too long. Sure, everyone has moments where they need reassurance, but trying to manipulate someone into it won't work out well in the end. I think you need to take a step back, and become more secure as a person...that's how you become the type of woman that good men want to be with.

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    9 years ago

    @CountlessDouche That whole opinion was completely arrogant, and irreverent. You need help. Hurting that poor girl like that.

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