Im getting dumped

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He says he loves me and im the best girlfriend he ever had but hes dumping me, we fight more and more but ever since he decided to break up we been good we decided to break up 5 days ago we are both looking into moving i just got a job working for his best friend we were going to buy a house together and get a dog now that our lease is up on the apt but he just snapped in one of our fights and its really over its 4th of July and im sitting inside while hes out with his friends while almost ten hours ago my friends called and wanted me to hang out tonight but i said no because i was hoping me and my boyfriend would work shit out or at least be together i cant eat or sleep and hes been out with his friends most the time since he dumped me the other times we spent was just like sex sex sex which i love but idk is it normal that i want him to be here instead and i cant accept us breaking up and that he is just fine when he tells me he loves me still?

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Accept that it is over not by what he says but by having standards for yourself ... which could incluyde having a life despite the ex-bf, you feel, and not being a sex object.

    Really, you have to take charge & stand up for yourself & say: "Its over." Than behave accordingly.

    Have some pride. Don't be pathetic. Dump him.

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    • [Old Memory]
      13 years ago

      Excuse the grammar.

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  • fullmetaljo
    13 years ago

    after a tough break up usually people will radiate back towards their ex. why? because it's convenient. you've spent a portion of your life with person you opened up to them and you trusted them, it's only natural you'd want to be with them still even when you know it isn't good for you. you have to take time to think it over, both of you. after some time decide what you think is best.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    you really need to understand that its over between use two, no offence to you or the guy but hes using you for sex. you really need to dump him and have some pride as @Ollieo said.
    go have fun with your friends dont hang around hoping that he will come back from being with his friends.

    get out of that apartment and leave him.

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  • kellstar
    13 years ago

    Dont stay at home hopping for him too be there! Go out and enjoy yourself! He may get jealous and threatened by it and want u back quicker. The worst thing u can do is show him how cut up about the breakup u r. Reverse psychology

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