Im considered handsome, is it normal for me to like chubby or average girls?

Im considered very handsome by most girls i know. Everytime i go to the mall or some public place i get alot of looks from girls and every once in a little while a stranger even comes up and compliments me on my looks. I feel im very confident of myself but ive always been told i have a bad taste on girls. People usually tell me I like to "make ugly girls a favor". Sometimes i agree with them but there are other times in which i actually like the girl im dating, i dont know if i lack confidence and if that is why I look for uglier girls or if it is something else.

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  • dom180

    Ehh. There's no such thing as "bad taste" when it comes to other human beings. You like what you like, and that might not be the same thing everyone else likes. That doesn't mean there's anything wrong or weird about you.

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    • Ted Bundy.
      Jeffrey Dahlmer.
      Richard Ramirez.

      All have fan girls with tastes for those types of people...

      Not at all a bad taste in other human beings.

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      • Freedom_

        In regards to looks....

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      • SubstationSubCurb111713

        But did they have a fanbase before they were famous for what they did? Is their fame the fanbase, or their looks? If it was their looks, they'd already have had it.

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  • LornaMae

    Are you equating ugly to chubby? It sounds like it... You of all people (since you are attracted to them) should know better... A lot of people do it, so it's possible that your friends are influencing you based on their concept of attractiveness...

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    • dom180

      Exactly. "Ugly girls are attractive" is kind of an oxymoron. Either they're attractive or they're not!

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    • anti-hero

      Mo cushion, mo pushin'.

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  • EccentricWeird

    You're not handsome.

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  • disthing

    You like what you like.

    If you're going out with a girl because you find her personality and her appearance attractive, then there's really nothing else to consider.

    What you find attractive may not conform to everybody else's expectations, but as long as it's legal and you're happy, who cares?

    It doesn't sound like you go for 'ugly girls' because of low self esteem since you've just bragged about being handsome and how you are very confident in yourself. The only thing you don't seem to be confident about is following your own sense of attraction.

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    • disthing

      Oh also..
      "Sometimes i agree with them but there are other times in which i actually like the girl im dating"

      Don't date girls you don't like. You'll just be rightly labelled a prick if you lead on people you're not interested in.

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  • Being handsome has nothing to do with yout attractions to others, really.

    How you act attracted to girls as if you are doing them a favor is shady, you are emotionally coning them and that isn't fair.

    That being said, you can like chubby and average girls all you like, there's nothing wrong with it, you have a preference.

    I myself have a certain taste, I don't find the top of the top in attractiveness in girls as "attractive" in any other way than art, I prefer average looking people. It's a preference.

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  • shuggy-chan

    it all a matter of perspective, i rather not go for the obvious beauty and more for the quirky and kooky or nerdy sweetheart types.

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  • Faceless

    In the immortal words of Tracy Morgan, "I love chunky chicks 'cause no matter where you touch 'em they feel like titty."

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  • davesumba

    That makes me sick. They need to ban inter-attractiveness marriage. I miss the '40s, where handsome men knew their place in society and didn't spout such non sense.

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  • SubstationSubCurb111713

    "there are other times in which i actually like the girl im dating"

    Why are you ever dating people you don't like? Who is winning there?

    Outside of the snark, I think something about the TV you are watching is confusing you that pretty people go together and intelligent people go together and it's impossible to be both because, then, who would you go with? Also, that it's impossible to cross that human-defined boundary.

    In short, date who you like and forget what anyone else says you should think about them.

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  • Ilovewinter12

    Well, most people would consider me cute, or at least average, but the people I've been attracted to varies greatly. For example, I have found a 6'2', chubby man attractive while I have also found a average, cute guy attractive.

    Then again, it's usually the person's personality that I'm more attractive to than their looks. Like, I wouldn't be attracted to somebody who was considered sexy if they are a total asshole.

    So, in a nutshell, beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

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  • Unimportant

    No, it's not okay. It is going to destroy the system!

    Next thing you know, there's gonna be ugly-handsome pairings everywhere!

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  • handsignals

    I think girls that are labelled chubby and average are the hottest girls in the world. Look at girls like Felicia Clover and Samantha 38G.

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  • robbieforgotpw

    Chubby chasing

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  • mixwell

    Id rather be with a thick chick than a skinny bitch wit no body. You like what you like. I see skinny guys with thick girls all the time. Me and all my friends like thick women and living in Los Angeles there's a lot thick little latina shorties

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  • dutchgypsygirl92

    From the perspective of a chubby 22-year-old girl: my fiancee is Italian, 6ft2, has a smoking body, he has dark curly hair and the most beautiful brown bedroom eyes. His sense of style is amazing, even casual clothing on him looks like he just stepped out of a magazine. I still have no idea why he fell in love with me, as I am only 5'3", 140 lbs and in my opinion below average in looks. When we walk down the street, the most beautiful girls look at him in awe. He doesn't even notice as his focus is always on me. Sometimes I'm afraid he's only doing me a favour, but that's nonsense. You wouldn't marry someone when you're only doing them a favour. Apart from that he doesn't even realize his own level of attractiveness.

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  • Lylos

    I can relate to that. I know which women are considered 'hot' by the society, but I feel no interest for them. But whenever I see an average or slightly chubby girl, with a natural look and a warm smile, I instantly feel like I'd like to talk to her and maybe more.

    Maybe I have prejudices and think all 'hot' women are stupid, arrogant and spoiled, or maybe I don't want to compete with other stupid self-declared-handsome lovers, or maybe I have just fear to be left alone and that's less likely with less attractive girls, or maybe I think they are the ones who most needs attention from men and I want to make them happy too. I don't know exactly, but who cares.

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  • MissDethstar

    I don't want to answer this question as it feel like hitting my head on the wall. But I felt like posting a comment. Boo

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  • loopoo

    Show us a pic we will judge.

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  • kelili

    My friends always tell me that I date only ugly guy. I think that we are attracted to ugly, that's all.

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