Im against gay culture

I noticed theres a lot of gay people these days. And i dont know why but i feel really awkward around gays. Not just the men but woman too. They say if you feel uncomfortable around gay people it means your hiding something. Come on!?.

I just dont like watching them hold hands and kiss i mean, imagine a guy giving another guy tongue. No ways. And i dont know why im like this. Im straight and i dont know how a man can want another man. Same for girls liking girls. My girlfriend doesnt mind, she has gay friends but i just cant stand it.

Am i over reacting?

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  • nonfiction

    we are living in the twenty first century were every boidy has the right to live the way they do.i know a few gay ppl in my community and it doesnt bother me for me its about expression,they not hurting you? right
    live and let live,judging is for god only to do

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  • CharleSD

    ♪ Look inside, look inside your tiny mind, now look a bit harder.
    Cause we're so uninspired so sick and tired of all the hatred that you harbor... ♪♪ (F**k You -Lily Allen)

    It's a song by Lily Allen, listen to it ;)
    Yoy say you're against gay culture? what have the gays done to u? They're just living their lives
    you shouldn't care as long as they don't hurt anyone
    I think u just should try to open your mind (im not saying you should try men/women)

    AND YES, I'M GAY :D

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  • Shady_Waffle

    Yes, you are overreacting. You are homophobic which is a prejudice, but I think you already realized this judging by your story and question here. This is a result of the same socialization that also teaches sexism.

    Since what you feel towards homosexuals isn't genetic or natural, but a product of socialization, you can choose to overcome your homophobia (though I don't doubt that it takes time). This way you wouldn't have to feel uncomfortable anymore by irrational feelings. :) But in all honesty someone's sexuality is not anyone's business but their own and their partner(s)'s if they have one. Either way, good luck! I hope you can make peace with yourself. :)

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  • randomjelly

    As a gay woman I think it's gross to see straight people together...so yeah that's normal. Your persistance that you're not gay or homophobic makes you totally sound gay and homophobic. Good luck with that.

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  • Schythl

    Love is love, no matter what gender. Some people are just too ignorant to get that!!

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  • theonewiththehair

    There's nothing disgusting about two people who love each other. I'm straight and I don't care who loves who. As for the whole rights issue, our rights are in no way violated by giving them rights. If anything it would strengthen the values marriage (love, monogamy, fidelity) How is it fair that I am allowed to marry my bf based on the luck of the draw that I was born straight.

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  • alv1592

    it's no different than a guy and a girl, except it's two guys or two girls. that's not disgusting at all.

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  • llane

    Let and let live. Their lifestyle has nothing to do with you. Prejudice is not pretty & says more about what kind of person you are,

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  • polaris800

    Kinda bothers me too,it's just not right you know? Men where supposed to e with women and women where supposed to be with men, not the other way around! I don't understand how another man could like penis? Fucking messed up! Honestly I think they all should be hung from trees!

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    • sp123

      cunt.

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  • One_BAMF

    Gay behavior is simply not a normal example of human behavior and you and anyone else shouldn't have to see it. I feel so embarrassed every time I see someone acting really gay in public because I know they are making other people uncomfortable. If we can happily and openly discriminate against smokers, the mentally ill, the poor, blacks, and women, we should openly acknowledge and accept that some people don't like gay people. Everyone is entitled to their beliefs.

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  • gregorysherman

    nah your not over reacting.
    i'd react the same way. its disgusting

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  • thatdude

    As a gay person myself its cool. I dont always like being around straight people. If everybody was meant to love or like everyone then we already would. and as for PDA... Gay people dont like watching straight guys kiss other girls so we're in agreement dude. Your Normal. GAY APPROVED!

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  • spiritsinmyrooom

    You're homophobic, that's it. Let people live their lives, why care so much about their love life?

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  • offtopic

    from your description you don't seem overly homophobic, and I don't think you're "hiding something". however there is nothing wrong with being gay, so while it may make you uncomfortable it's not something you should say is gross or should only exist where you can't see it

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  • Riddler

    Alright who have you been talking to? Not wanting to watch two people intimate is normal and does not mean you are hiding anything.

    Some people are simply uncomfortable watching others be intimate. This goes for all couples. You do not have to "WANT to watch others have sex and kiss".

    Its not a requirement to accept a certain sexuality of people. If you do not want a couple making out while you are present, you have a right to ask them to stop.

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  • CforCourageous

    Yea it's normal because being gay is unnatural. It's sick. A man kissing a man is disgusting, same with woman kissing each other. Men were created for women and vice versa. There's nothing acceptable about gay activity. It's just gross. Lost people looking for "love", scarred and bruised from past issues or circumstances so they turn to what "feels" right. Smh.

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  • 2_damgud_4

    Must state also that it seems if your not gay these days or supporting being gay & are straight your not a good person or normal judging by many of an opinion iv'e seen .. sorry but - they made that life choice , not me , & anyhow , when was being "straight" such a bad thing either .. lol !

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  • 2_damgud_4

    i am comfortable around gay people .. as long as they are not hitting on me .. i don't give two facks lol , but doesn't mean i have to get out there everyday & support what they do or like it .. !

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  • 2_damgud_4

    a requirement or necessity .. ? No is the answer ! Essentially , what you like/don't like comes down to personal preference & what your comfort level is .. It's like one half of a crowd agreeing they like peanut butter sandwiches for example .. & the other half disagreeing .. Personally -

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  • 2_damgud_4

    Why is nearly everyone posting being so judgemental themselves .. ?! Just because the poster finds it uncomfortable being around gay people & isn't gay themselves that makes them all of a sudden "bad ??" is it a criteria to be gay these days or to like being around people who are gay a -

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  • jrizzle

    It's ok to feel weird. Just don't be rude. I also get really uncomfortable around the gays

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  • Βaτмaη

    Your hiding somthing.

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  • Genabeaver

    Everyone is different!

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  • Bijpop

    It's totally normal to be uncomfortable with something you're not familiar with or used to. If you grew up in a household that didn't talk about it or condemned it, then it's only natural that you would feel like gay people are doing something awkward. Hell, I'm gay and just people in general being overly romantic in public makes me uncomfortable regardless of their sexual orientation... I think if it's something that bothers you and you want to be comfortable with, then make an effort to get to know gay people and eventually you'll realize they're the same as anyone else. Either way, accept who you are and accept that things will make you uncomfortable sometimes. Eventually you will find that by being comfortable with yourself, you will be comfortable around others, including those who are "different."

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  • BrentGaspar

    There are better things to worry about.

    I don't know the story of your life or how it influences your feelings of gay culture; but in my opinion gay pride in the form of colour, flamboyancy, and parades sets back homosexual rights and only slows down any possible progress

    But the homophobia you describe, which is really just the role of a woman being replaced by another man in an intimate relationship exists, and will only continue to progress as a global society shrugs off the chains of religion that has limited the rights of man since its existence

    -Brent-

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  • CrazyDude99

    Yeah I feel the same way, they piss me off a little

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  • 68newman

    "we are living in the twenty first century were every boidy has the right to live the way they do."

    So polygamy and bestiality are now legal?

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  • beingthatguy

    I'm gay but none of my friends or family know that I am.
    And I'm not gonna lie, I even find it odd sometimes when I see guys or girls of the same sex kissing.
    Especially when I witness it with friends around, it's just something that I think needs to be done in private (for me personally) just cause I know that it isn't the norm is society.
    It doesn't sound like you hate gay people or anything, you're just uncomfortable with it.
    I think it's normal for you to feel that way.

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  • Gfrigo

    Just thinking about 2 guys having sex is fucking gross.

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  • darkprince

    giving them rights violates our rights

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  • leonadavinaa

    i know exactly how you feel, i am not for that at all..although theyre still human but do they not realise its awkward lol

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  • cassiewa

    Normal... It's weird cuz with boys I feel really uncomfortable... But with lesbian girls it doesn't seem as gross to me...

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  • inuyasha0489

    ok i see where ur coming from with the dudes but girl kissing girls is hot coem on whats not hot about that

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  • darkprince

    i agree with you totally.. I think that i have the right to walk around town or go anywhere without seeing that shit it's disgusting. FAGS are the most disgusting pple on the planet. Pple say that gays should have rights like marriage.. i say F that hell no. They shouldn't have the right to adopt children either..... its not normal no fuckin way

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