Im a teenager and havent had a serious relasionship yet

I know I'm young and people say " you have you whole life ahead of you " but most people my age have boyfriends, and I don't. I really want to be in a relationship with a guy, but I cant find a decent enough person. I've never had a serious relationship. Am I a failure of love? :L

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  • Thatguy777

    I'm 18, and I've never even come CLOSE to even kissing anybody. I don't even try anymore, because girls don't give me a chance

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  • Sterly2Pearly

    Same here I'm 18 and I have never even had a serious relationship with someone(and I probably will not start anytime soon)...almost everyone around me has a girlfriend or boyfriend.And sometimes I want one, but most times I'm like "Na I don't really want a boyfriend; no one seems worth the time"...lol

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  • NormalJohn

    Hey! Don't you frown, missy! I haven't been in a relationship yet, and I am 38. (A young 38 at that, lol ;p) All you need is to find a boy who won't try to get into your ham wallet at recess everyday. (I tried that once, DON'T ever do that) All you have to do is be nice, guys will always gravitate the nice girl in class!

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  • Anime7

    You're not a failure. I know that it's hard to believe, and trust me I have a hard time believing it as well, but the right person will show up. Probably. Eventually. Hopefully. Honestly I know where you're coming from, I feel like I'm alone to. But when it comes to actual advice giving all I can say is just have hope. I know that its tough feeling alone, and if you don't want to take the advice, especially since it's coming from me, then I wouldn't blame you. I know what's it like to be you, and I know that having hope is hard. But there isn't really much else a person can say to you besides have hope.

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  • dom180

    Everyone gets there in their own time. I know that's not useful advice but it's true :P

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  • Riddler

    No... No! Not at all you horrible person you. Your a teenager why are you expecting it to get serious at this point anyways? Most teenagers are idiots so even if you take stuff serious it does not mean anyone else is mature enough to. So its not abnormal. Its hard for certain age group to find a serious relationship.

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  • sonic1754

    your fine I have the same problem but I am a guy. I don't know what social life is like for women but I have had some people say hey you we need to get you a girlfriend-(including my mom)-im a teenager

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  • P.J.Fry

    Ive never been in a serious relationship either...There was a girl i was gonna ask out once but my nerves got the better of me, and before i knew it, She was going back out with her ex. Im gutted! -_-

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  • HelloMotto7

    There are a lot of teen guys out there who aren't even ready for a relationship. Trust me.

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  • thegypsysailor

    I would imagine you have plenty to do at your age to worry so much about a serious relationship.
    In time (I know, EVERYBODY says that) you'll meet a guy or ten, and then the right one. Time is on your side.

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    • linchpin

      Young Turks

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      • linchpin

        Young hearts be free tonight, time is on your side...

        Young Turks

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        • Damnit! I just got Carly Simon out of my head. Now...Rod Stuart? You're evil.

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          • P.J.Fry

            My grandad punched rod stuart in the face, before he was famous. My claim to fame!

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            • Respect for your dad...+1.

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