Im a pathological lier but how do i say?

Dont worry they already know. Pathological liars are very interesting to be around, Ive always wondered if they know that a lot of people around them know they are full of it.

I dont believe your a pathological liar, i think your lying

Tell them. They won't get upset or stop loving you. Saying something about it will be reassuring & show them that you can acknowledge what you're doing and you don't like it. Then you will have their support while trying to quit your habit. I've known people that can't help lying for absolutely no reason. And it was very obvious they were doing it. But judging by your post, you seem like you will be able to stop. :D

Ok first off it is your fault for being that way. Somewhere we make accusations that one has this behavorial problem and begin to throw it out there like its someone else fault or the dogs fault, however point being it is your fault. I am not one to judge because i have been here. I would make up lies, i would just randomly ie about dumb stuff that didn;t even matter. Before long i was lieng about everything. You have to have self control and stop. Begin to put practice into it. I like what the person said, think 3 times before yo speak, sit down and write about WHY you would lie, about the things you lied about and begin to think about how you can quit doing it. Stop having to be center of attention. I think lieing is a case wshere we try to fit in, or try to be cool. Maybe wrong but people do thaand it becomes something bigger than you. Its better to put a stop to it now so work hard. Oh and you know what els, when you lie, and you come to your senses tell that person right then and there that you just lied. And people should not get mad or upset with you, they should love you and try to help you become a better person. however if they do i don;t feel as if they care about you like they should.

How do I know you're not lying about being a liar then hmmmm... jklol
Maybe you should get some help and just think before you say things.

To get over lying, take things one step at a time. I used to have the same problem.
Start by learning to be quiet in conversations, whether what you have to say is true or false, and think three times before you say anything. Try not to talk about yourself much, or anything else you might usually lie about.
Let old lies die. Sometimes the bigger ones actually become a part of you. You've got to accept that they're not true and let them go.
There will be better and worse days. It can be hard to tell people the truth, especially when you're already a liar. You've got to accept it, and take a mature approach on it. If you do that, then when you come round to tell someone 'wait, sorry, that was a lie. I do it compulsively sometimes,' they're much more likely to trust you and take you seriously.

You should and if they love you they will accept. Plus you said it isn't really in your control, so they should understand. Try to see if there are any cures or medications to it as well.

well first off, it is not normal to be a tried and true compulsive liar(although many people may seem like they are). if you are truly a pathological liar then you need to seek help, and any time you seek help for a behavioral problem then you should get help from your friends and family, if your diagnosed as being one then they have to understand because it isn't your fault entirely. now if they discover you aren't a pathological liar, then your just a dirty liar and they'll probably ring you dry.
cheers!

im sorry but this was the funniest thing i have ever read....

it is not normal but i am exactly the same way i lie for no reason and i just cant stop and they catch me all the time and i feel so stupid.

what should we do?

They probably suspect or know already. Come clean. Get help.

You should tell them. If you really cant help it then they have no right to get upset. Ask them for help and they wont be mad they will be more concerned then mad