Im a good,decent,law abiding black person who cant find a girl friend

I was jus wandering,its seems like now no one likes black guys. I know that there is a lot of stereotypes out there, but not all of them are true it jus seems like no one finds me atractive at all. I feel like the last couple of years have been tuff. About 2 yrs ago I was over weight, fresh out of college, and striving to be some one other than statistic o try to dress pretty decent,I'm fit and I have a car and a good job. Is it me or my location. Once upon a time I could date all women etc no as I'm getting closer to 30 it jus seems harder. I tried dating websites and they don't seem to work well for black guys and on the black dating websites they sometimes lack quality. Jus cus she black doesn't mean she cute do all women think that I'm ugly cus I'm black or what ?

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  • black men look nice especially in pastel colors, good luck you sound like youd be a lovely boyfriend

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  • Hey so also black 26 yo seems like ur getting out of the ugly duck phase most black guys go through I literally moved 2 states to be with my gf who's white n we met online there are girls out there but I felt the same way like " am I this ugly?" it wasn't that it was just a bad stretch of luck. Keep tryin but def use online. I used to be super skinny n weak n then I started lifting an grew into my body but it still took my yrs after to find a gf we've been together for 5 yrs n I am truly blessed m lucky n u need both to find someone these days. Also where do u live? Like I said earlier if your job allows change scenery good luck!

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